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A friend I've known for a couple years - recently she's been getting closer to me as friend or maybe more? I know she enjoys talking to me (a lot), and is very nice to me, often giving me compliments. She subtly touches my hand often in a way that could be seen as an accident, and she will touch my arm once in a while to get my attention.

The other night, we were standing close and she leaned into me, gently pressing her chest against my arm as she told me something (I don't remember what she said my mind went blank lol), it happened for a good moment and neither of us backed away. She doesn't have massive breasts so it's not like she couldn't help it.

I am very interested in her, but am trying to not let that affect my judgement and ruin our friendship.

In a nutshell you have a nice guy with the body type you like, imagine the body with six pack and ripped muscles (magazine cover type) and the same body, still muscly and good but not ripped and no six pack (just normal flat stomach, Gerard Butler style body I guess) .
Does the ripped body have any serious advantage over the non ripped version? Would the ripped one exctite you more in any kind of sexual way? Or would you feel the need to touch it more than the other one?