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Just now I answered a question about how whether a girl should wait for a guy to "change his mind on being afraid of intimacy and commitment", but I feel like in reality if he truly cared about her then it wouldn't be a question of "oh I don't know if I want to or not" he'd be like "FUCK YEA" and then jump around in exhilaration.

If he has so much doubt about whether he even wants to date or not, he probably doesn't really care the slightest bit and is leading her on.

Thoughts?

(question in question

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/relationships/q2038178-if-a-guy-likes-me-but-genuinely-has-attachment-issues-fear-of
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With so many options available to women, many young girls have the mindset that men are replaceable.

They will flake on you if another guy gives her a better offer even if she made a promise to go on date. They will dump you if they are sure that another male who she deems better than you wants a relationship with her and not just a booty call.

Some girls have the sadistic pleasure of leading guys on and thinking they are interested in them when they just want attention then go ghost, once they get a boyfriend.
While dating for men tends to be a numbers game. Average guys usually has to approach A LOT of girls and find one that is willing to go on a date with him.
After which the guy will be more emotional invested and chase the girl because he doesn't know when he's going to get another girl he likes to say yes. So you find men tend to form emotional connection faster, and become almost a bit obsess in wanting to be with the girl.

Men tend to take relationships and dating more serious than women even during the early phases of courtship. Hence, why you'll never see a girl get bent out of shape at an average guy cutting contact with her.

And when the girl flakes on him, goes no contact or even dumps him it tends to hurt men a lot more than it does women because it was more an investment for men than women and women can always find another you.
Remember, woman often post break up can find a new man within a week or even month. A guy will be back to ground zero.

Many young men get strung up on a girl who rejected them, or ghosted on them or even dump them and can't seem to get over the girl for months and years. This kind of thing can eat at a guy's heart until he hardens his heart.
With that being said should more men begin adopting women are replaceable mentality and stop thinking a girl is special? In this way if a girl does any of this shit he can shrug it off his shoulders and stop trying to fight for a girl who thinks of him as backup option at best.