Search Results: how can i tell if my boyfriend is cheating

How can I find out forsure he's cheating?

my boyfriend ex lives about 2 hours away from where we live now. today I wake up and he tells me he's going to that same town for a business meeting. He booked a 2 night stay at a hotel and told me he'll be back... im...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is this more than what he says?

So, I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years and for most of it, it's been wonderful. But recently things have started to change. I had an experience. One night he was drinking with his family, I was upstairs because...

lovinxxx2335

Xper 5 Age: 32

Dating

I dont get much time with my long distance boyfriend and everything going harsh for me what should I do?

a lot of thing happened, started when he got his job he stopped spending his even weekend times with me, we barely call 2 times in a month, he is writing around 10 messages in a day average on the top of these he recently...

justarandomgirl0

Xper 1 Age: 24

Relationships

My boyfriend tolerates his best friend cheating. is this bad?

I know the girl his best friend is cheating on. we're not close, but we're friends. my boyfriend told me not to tell anyone. and that only his "group" know. I feel bad but I know I can't say or do anything. can I? I can't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

What’s wrong with my boyfriend's best friend?

A few days ago he told me something about my boyfriend that hurt me a lot (I don't know if it can be called cheating, but almost). He showed me evidence and gave me some details about everything (I think he was dying to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Conservative girl with boyfriend with promiscuous past - Are we doomed?

When I met my current boyfriend, he was looking for causal sex and I wasn't interested in it, but we continued to hang out because we found each other intellectually stimulating. He was seeing me less and less as he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Should I believe my friend or is she being overdramatic and over analyzing things?

I have two friends— one woman and one man. The woman used to work with me. She’s gorgeous and receives a lot of attention from guys, but has trouble getting into relationships. She can be over analytical and over...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

How should you deal with sexually aggressive young men?

Im actually really shy and get scared easily especially around men as I've had a lot of experiences were i lost trust with them. I used to have a really close male friendship group since childhood till they took my...

GlitterFairy16

Xper 6 Age: 22

Family & Friends

Best friend disloyalty?

I have fallen out with my best friend of 6 years, first time this has ever happened. Since she got into a rship 18 months ago she has become more and more dismissive of our friendship. If I try to make plans with her...

Busybee1111

Xper 4 Age: 45

Relationships

Boyfriend cheating? Need help?

Hey everyone, I am 20 yo and my boyfriend is 32. We have been together since 6 months (right before quarantine)... Let me just say that our relationship is really cool. We both spend days hugging, cooking, having sex......

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How did I get HSV-2?

Please help me serious My girlfriend has genital herpes now. Located below her vagina. She started to feel ill last Monday (7/27) and got the cyst on Wednesday (7/29). Last time I had sex with her was (7/25) and...

Zezzara

Xper 4 Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

She's purposely trying to piss me off, right? Why hasn't anyone in my friend group stood up for me?

themeowingsnail

Xper 3 Age: 31

My "friend" told me she cheated on her current boyfriend of 5 years with one of his current best friends. I had an issue with it and brought it up to her after she told me about it. I

My "friend" told me she cheated on her current boyfriend of 5 years with one of his current best friends. I had an issue with it and brought it up to her after she told me about it. I just wanted to tell her that I don't like knowing, I felt bad for her boyfriend, and I'm going to distance myself a bit. She said she understood, but shortly after accused me of trying to break them up. Her boyfriend's best friend (the one she cheated with) also accused me of this. We made up for the sake of our friend group. Little did I know, her boyfriend also thought I had made stuff up and tried to break them up (I wonder who told him that).

3 months later and here we are, this girl and her boyfriend are trying to convince the others to not let me go on this trip. I was originally lied to about who didn't want me to come, and became very confused when that person texted me asking why I wasn't anymore. I eventually find out from my best friend that it's this girl and her boyfriend that are behind it.

I haven't heard from this girl once since I found out about this. But, oh boy, has she made sure to cling onto my best friend. I messaged the guys when I found out who actually didn't want me to come. I told them I wasn't coming on the trip, that I wish they wouldn't talk behind my back, and then exclude me w/o any outward explanation. That night, this girl asks my best friend if she can come over and talk, she talked bad about me to my best friend, and made sure to post a snapstory so I knew that she had been there. Then she asks my best friend to hang out the next two nights in a row. My best friend did, because she's recently started her first relationship with one of the other guys. I decided to remove myself from the groupchats w/ this group bc none of them were acknowledging what had happened. I was hurt, and it was a constant reminder.

Now this girl is posting on her ig story about "toxic people". I unfollow and then she changes her bio to "I love my life and I love my friends".

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Relationships

Why do guys cheat if they actually have a good girlfriend or wife who cares?

I dont get it and never will. If they have a girl who is loyal, compassionate, caring, and loving, why do they cheat? What's the point? If they want thrill why dont they just stay single. Its so selfish to think they can...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

At what age do guys stop caring so much about sex or a girl's looks and starts caring about something as important as their intelligence or career?

I'm 21. I've only had one boyfriend in my life (when I was 19). He dumped me for the reason that I was too good for him as he said he is shy and insecure and I'm not. Guys don't notice me in college as I dress in a classy...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Girls, Girls: Would you be upset if your boyfriend/girlfriend of three years had a secret life?

I am not talking about cheating. But say he was part of a tight-knit online community that includes webcam conversations (non-nude, strictly platonic) and he didn’t tell you about it. And then when you discover it he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Boyfriend cheating online?

my boyfriend of 3 years has been messaging a woman online and asking for naked photos and videos. He calls me neurotic but i have seen the messages. He deletes them also. He even told her when im at work so she can...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

How would you handle knowing a secret that could break up your friend group?

My best friend (ill call her Jenna) and I got into a fight a few months ago. We forgave each other, but I recently found out that Jenna's boyfriend (ill call him Bob) has been mad at me ever since. I was a few months...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Should I break up with him?

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. Today I was looking back at first six months of the relationship. He would ask me to stop being friends with guys who use to like me, but behind my back he would...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Is it possible to only have eyes for your partner?

I love my boyfriend like crazy and i can't imagine my life with anyone else. I could never cheat on him, it's just not worth it, he means so much to me but at the same that doesn't mean either of us don't find others...

GlitterFairy16

Xper 6 Age: 22

Relationships

My parents are forcing me to break up with my Muslim boyfriend and I feel depressed?

I'm a 24 year old fashion designer living at home with my parents. Right now, I'm trying to deal with my parents FORCING me to break up with my 31 year old boyfriend. We've been together for a year and I can't imagine my...

AshleyBenedith

Xper 6 Age: 31