At what age do guys stop caring so much about sex or a girl's looks and starts caring about something as important as their intelligence or career?

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I'm 21. I've only had one boyfriend in my life (when I was 19). He dumped me for the reason that I was too good for him as he said he is shy and insecure and I'm not. Guys don't notice me in college as I dress in a classy way. I don't like wearing clothes that are too over-revealing as girls do here on campus (that is their choice, so I don't disapprove a person for how they want to dress). Guys go for girls that dress like that though and have this awful attitude towards everyone, wears a lot of makeup to where they look like an entirely different person (nothing wrong with a person wanting to wear makeup though as that is their choice, so again, I don't disapprove any woman for that), and ends up cheating or breaking up with the dude after 2 months. Guys here also go for women who would offer endless sex to any guy and have a relationship with her for only that reason.

I don't wear makeup for the reason that I don't feel like myself then (however my friends say I'm naturally pretty and so I can get away with not wearing makeup). I don't like the idea of being in a relationship only for sex.

Today during one of my classes, my professor asked me to answer a question about something we were learning about for the day. I gave a good answer even though the question really had no specific answer, and this dude just chimes in and tells me, "no that's stupid, its (his answer)". And started laughing. One of my friends in my class told me, "Don't let him bother you, he's always like that"

At what age do guys stop caring so much about sex or a girl's looks and start caring about something as important as a woman's intelligence or career as far as wanting to date a girl because of those qualities and not just because how they dress or only date them for sex only?
At what age do guys stop caring so much about sex or a girl's looks and starts caring about something as important as their intelligence or career?
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