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My aunt was raised with overprotective parents. They wouldn't even let her sleepover not even with a female friend. She would secretly date her HS sweetheart. Her uncle caught them making out once and made a big scene, dragging her all the way home, yelling about how that's not how young ladies behave, told her parents about it, etc. She got banned from seeing her boyfriend. Her parents were too focused on her waiting till marriage, never drinking nor smoking, that type of upbringing.

Result:
She didn't wait till marriage.
Her HS sweetheart wasn't her first and only boyfriend ever.
She was into parties for a bit as an adult, enjoying the freedom she never had.
She married her 4th boyfriend, a very liberal man.

Liberal/permissive style
She and her husband only had a daughter and she was raised in the liberal manner. She was allowed to go on camping trips and excursions (far from home) with friends, went out on a date at the age of 14 for the first time, didn't have a curfew and at the age of 16 got lectured about safe sex. My aunt didn't want to make the same mistake her family did to her.

Result:
She got pregnant at the age of 18 with her 3rd boyfriend.
Her ex boyfriend still pays child support and is in contact with the child often.
She's now 27, married with another guy and they have 2 kids.
My aunt and her husband thinks they exceeded on her liberalism.

Obviously neither extreme is good but which do you think is worse? Overprotective or very liberal parents?

There are 3 things my parents failed me in:
- Allowing me to cheat on some school tests. Many years later, my mother admitted that she knew I cheated sometimes but did nothing to stop it.
- Not teaching me important househould chores, how to drive nor how to balance a check.
- Not taking me to self-defenses classes as a kid when I wanted to. My mother told me that's for guys and said I should be interested in other things.

My boyfriend thinks I actually had more potential but my parents messed it up. I think so too. By now, I've known probably been a professional mother, married housewife, good cook and martial artist. I imagine that would've been a great combination if my parents didn't hold me back.

My cousin and his fiancé were meant to get married this May but it has been postponed and moved to August now because of coronavirus of course.

I get on really well with my cousins fiance, she's more around my age and is kinda shy like me and we like to go out clubbing and for drinks together sometimes so im so happy her and my cousin Danny are finally getting married and im invited to the wedding and so is my boyfriend.

My cousins fiance dad is Italian millionaire no lie, all my friends think i chatting shit but its ture. They dont act like your typical rich people and are very nice and humble but her dad is planning on this wedding to be fancy af and i want to be able to fit in with her side of the family but on a budget. As i know they are all gonna be wearing expensive designer clothes being Italian plus rich.