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Search Results: is my confidence hurting me
Uninterested in college now because I fell in love?
I really started to like a guy I've had a thing for since 2013. Time goes by and long story short he ends up breaking my heart. I was so focused on school before him. Now I can't focus because of him. He treats me mean...
Anonymous
(30-35) Boyfriend is upset now that I give him same treatment?
I've been with my boyfriend for almost half a year. We are very close, friendly with each other's families and genuine about each other and have plans together for our future. When we first started dating he would comment...
Anonymous
(36-45) He left me for his ex 2 months ago why can't I just move on from this rejection?
I met him when I was 19 he used me for sex and left me when I told him I was homeless. I saw him again around the end of 2015 and for some reason i gave him another chance in my life. As we started dating he started to...
Queen813
Xper 4 Age: 35 Insecure about wrinkles, how can I gain back my confidence?
Hi everyone, hope you can help me. I just wanted to share how I've been feeling lately; terrible about my looks. I can't take it anymore I used to have hormonal acne which was somewhat controlled with medication but never...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why Girls Should be Careful in Relationships
I don't mean that you have to be so paranoid or overly insecure, but girls in general have to be a bit more careful than guys. Guys have a long history of courting or asking girls out on dates to 'get the girl'..that's...
Anonymous
(25-29) Some experienced words of wisdom...
I wanted to share some life lessons I learned the hard way in the hopes that others can perhaps take them to heart. Perhaps it'll inspire you. These are opinionated, true, and your mileage may vary... so take them with a...
AlienIshboo
Xper 5 Age: 39 Define friends with benefits vs a "relationship" for those over 40?
I'm divorced and haven't dated much. Never slept with anyone but my ex except for a one-night stand a couple years ago. Recently met a really nice guy at a diner back in October and gave him my number. We've been texting...
Turquoise46
Xper 5 Age: 55 Why does he pick these type of females over me and then later on come back and try to apologize? Should I keep ignoring him or should I take him back?
My ex boyfriend has recently tried to contact me, but I have been ignoring him. The last time we spoke it was a huge argument about him being controlling and unfaithful. He has put me through a lot which still hurts. I...
Anonymous
(30-35) A Random Retelling of My 2016 (POLL inside)
Warning: This will probably be a very low quality piece. I'm feeling especially emotional, and this site is sort of an outlet for me to get out those emotions on occasion. I'll be sharing a personal experience, and it...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, would you rather date a smart guy with low self-esteem or a not-so-smart guy gushing with confidence?
I ask this because I consider myself a decently intelligent guy. I do very well in my college courses, and research novel antipsychotic drugs with a professor on campus. I also tutor German (which I am nearly fluent in),...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to handle criticism?
i m really bad at handling criticisms. especially when commented on my body cause my ex boyfriend used to do that and that has dropped my self confidence to the nadir. if a thousand people say i look pretty and one says i...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guy keeps questioning my looks or pointing out my flaws.. why doe he do that?
Hi ! I'm 21, very attractive body and face, however I've been dating this guy that is really making me feel insecure about myself... but don't get me wrong, he is also super sweet, which is confusing. I dress in a sexy...
Anonymous
(30-35) "It's a Paradox, is it not?" A Question of Love Versus Love
Confidence, Alpha-ness, Dominance, Leadership, Personality Strength, Presence, Charisma... If you're gonna slice it one way, you're gonna have to do so every other way. It goes by many names and I'm sure you get the...
Anonymous
(25-29) 10 New Years Resolutions That Will Make Your New Year Memorable
Aren't you excited about 2017? I know i am and there are a lots of goals that i need to accomplish when the New year arrives. Growing up, I've always heard people say " New Year, New Me" but are they actually sticking to...
Princesslee16
Xper 6 Age: 33 My fiancé stares at other women when we are out and he tells me to go to the gym. What does this mean for us?
My fiancé and I met on a matrimonial app. We spoke daily for hours &constantly messaged each other, this is something that still goes on (long distance). He is caring of me& I believe honest. However, he has annoying...
Star11x
Xper 2 Age: 36 I'm not sure what to make of my fiancé anymore, please help?
My fiancé and I met on a matrimonial app. We spoke daily for hours &constantly messaged each other, this is something that still goes on (long distance). He is caring of me and I believe honest. However, he has...
Star11x
Xper 2 Age: 36 How can I feel more secure in my relationship?
I need help! About a year and a half ago I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship. However, I'm currently dating an incredible guy, and we've been together for almost 3 months now. He treats me great and I really...
Anonymous
(30-35) How much do you know about girls or how you should treat them?
I was a bit late to dating starting at 19 i actually became pretty attractive after highschool and i changed a lot, style, hair cut, personality, much wittie funnier and confident , of course i had to go through lots of...
Anonymous
(30-35) Young ladies and gents, what are your initial physical and personality deal breakers when meeting someone?
This question is more for younger adults in college or mid 20s but anyone can answer really. So everyone what are some of your initial deal breakers upon meeting someone for the first time? A couple personality examples...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do You Ever Read the Psalms and Feel Completely Abandoned?
Like everyone who ever said that they would be there for you has let you down? And left you completely abandoned? From my friends to my family, priest, and even my own mother, I feel like I have no one. The pain has grown...
JRICHARDS1996
Editor Age: 30 