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So what I am doing right now needs fund of psychology knowledge and a sensitive brain, I read Maslow and Freud's theory and book, and the knowlodge does often help me in life and business, but I have some questions also.

I think human is physically a weaker edition orangutan and has more serious lack of security issue, which pushing them use their brain more often to satisfy their safety needs (to survive). When they evovle to civilization, exchange takes over self-sufficiency, what they can provide to others is more important to what they can provide to themselves, which makes safety issue worse, they worry to be "forgetten" by others, if one is not "social' enough, they don't usually have their descendant,
due to social type take advantage to get Sexual rights.
solitude "DNA type" won't pass to the next generation.

I notice people's "dream" have some common point like :
(1) get more respect and accept from society and others.
(2) feel more safe after reach "dream status".

money, power or reputation are just the tool in civilization society, won't work in jungle rule society.

It is not hard to imagine that, like young girls dream to be a singer star or young boys dream to be sport star or adult wants more power and money, with that, people can wipe out as much as things which threats (or potentially threat) their safety. and get what they want and can control as much as things or people.

I guess most "dream elements" between male and female are the same, but there is something I am not that sure, for girls, here are 2 options, which one you prefer :

(1) You are a princess, everyone in the world likes you, even a kitten wants to show smile to you if it can, your fans are all round the world. you can live forever.

(2) You are a queen, everyone in the world respects and honors you, you can order anyone to do anything, and you
can even kill anyone you want, everyone "likes" any of your
decision. you can live forever.

BadBoy: You know the drill. He's a rebel for no cause. Life is a rollercoaster of emotions when you are around him. You can't tell what happens next, but you know he means trouble... And you like it.
He lives life his way, he doesn't care about goddamned rules. Life is a gambit where you have nothing to lose and he sure takes advantage like that. Every day is a new adventure. He's the bad decision your parents didn't want you to take. He's the guy that speaks to the child in you, or maybe to that part of you that never really cared for society's boundaries anyways.
He is the definition of freedom.

Passionate Guy: He is a gentleman. He is the type of guy that goes to a party, and his only concern is meeting people. He's the male version of a social butterfly. He loves to talk about his passions and dreams, and loves to listen for yours. He knows the more people he has in his network, the better-off he is.
Now, he is very success focused. If he has a goal he will go through Hell and back for it. He will die for that goal if need be. You're important, but not that much. Should you try to blackmail him or in any way interfer with his plans, he will most likely forget all about you.
But you are more than welcome to stay with him. You are more than welcome to lay down with him and think "This guy is going to be someone, one day".
He is definition of dedication.

A lot of people on here apparently don't want us to have honest conversations with each other about major issues in society. When they see legitimate criticism being lobbed at their demographic, they respond with hateful name-calling, then mash that report button. I'm sorry, but no group of people is perfect. I think it's important that we be able to discuss societal issues without censorship if we ever want to solve anything. I understand it sucks when you're part of a group that's being generalized, but when you defend the bad actions of those people simply because they belong to the same demographic as you, you make the entire demographic look like shitheads. You'd honestly be better off just to admit that some people in your group are bad than to berate the people who point out their bad behavior and wear that report button out trying to get their post taken down. When I see a man being a shit-head and using women, I don't say, "Oh it's his right to express his sexuality however he wants blah blah blah." No, I chew that motherfucker out for being a big man-slut, in order to show women not all of us men are like that. I'm not saying all the women on here are a bunch of tattle tales, but a lot of them are, and it's usually the ones sticking up for bad behavior. Apparently they have no legitimate defense for their unjustifiable actions, so they have to resort to censorship to silent any dissent. That's just honestly pathetic. The ones who should be censored are the ones spam reporting posts they don't like and trying to advocate promiscuous lifestyles that ruin the lives of men, women, and most importantly, children.