Search Results: too soon to move on

( hypothetical no need to give advice 😊)

So miss so and so really likes you and you like her. Caveat- she was brought up forbidden any contact whatsoever with men, therefore lacks any heretofore experience esp of the romantic nature.

When she was 17 there was a crisis and her family moved away. She remained with distant relatives willing to help. She is free to date and intersted in sex , but not remotely ready. You like each other very much. She does not want to date atm bc she feels it is too much pressure on her to be ready for everything and or pressure on you to wait. She does not want to destroy the friendship with potential confusion and resentment. She encourages you to see others but there is no other you want to date , bc you want bc you want to date her. You have a bad case of ONEITUS 🤷‍♀️

You Guys stay friends while you secretly hope she will soon change her mind. You spend a lot of time together and one day she tells you she wants to sleep next to you.. She thinks it will be very special for her. She is sure you will soon find someone you want to date who is ready to date, and this will no longer be an acceptable activity. She is convinced she will not feel the same for anyone else as she does for you , so this experience is important to her and she is anxious to do it now, while you are free and there is the opportunity.

She realizes you may not be excited about the prospect , so accepts she is asking you for a favor. She realizes it may physically be difficult for you , as you are extraordinarily attracted to her.

While she has no previous experience with any part of the male anatomy, she suggests you teach her how to give a HJ. This aI can do that each night that you stay Over before you lay down so as to circumvent any accurate date energy , you will be able to rest and hold her peacefully whilst being undisturbed by lust..

Would you agree to it in the first Place?

Would you Be more likely to do it WITH a HJ or WITHOUT a HJ?

TX🌹

Now that I think about it, I wonder if my ex was bad company. We only dated for a few amount of months (if you’d even call that a relationship). It was long distance and we met online, he drove across the country for a living. I only saw him averaged 2x a month in person. We went on a vacation and split right after. Here are a few things that somewhat stand out to me as red flags:
1) He would bring up his exes rather often. And I brought this to his attention. He said with this driving job taking place right after HS, he did not have a lot of opportunities to socialize and the only relatable opportunities were with the women he dated at that time.
2) He told me he “loved” me after only a month. We spoke on the phone for hours everyday and met up in person a few times prior to this BUT in my opinion it was too soon.
3) He was never nervous, he seemed to lack emotion.
4) One time when we met up, I was using his phone to use safari and search something up. We “deleted” the app together after things were “official”. When I searched the browser, the website for the dating app appeared as “recently viewed” I believe.
5) He didn’t want to wait till marriage to have sex. He was eager to be intimate. After he told me he “loved” me, we had sex for the first time shortly after.
6) He was rather friendly. Very blunt if he told me he was checking out another woman. Told me of women he used to socialize with prior to talking to him. Seemed to make friends easily.
7) Moved on rather soon after things broke off. We ended things earlier last year and around three months later, he posted a new photo with another woman and they’ve been together since. If he was official with this chick so soon after splitting, I wonder if they were talking while I was with him.

Please read all and tell me your opinions.