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So I read this the other day and thought it was an interesting take. I'm posting to see if people do think love is dead.

":Love is a mutual exchange like friendship with benefits. It is not your stereotypical 1950s hallmark moment where you meet the one girl of your dreams and you have the nuclear family with the white picket fence and a dog and friendly neighbors. Women today are entitled to the extreme, you can blame the government for replacing the role of men or even feminism for their extremist views which have indoctrinated young boys, who weren't dealt with the best hand.

You have the sad cowardly nerd who never gets the courage to approach women. The provider/reliable stable family man father of 3 happy as could be, until she delivers the divorce papers. The high school football player who has a full scholarship and bright future until he knocks up the wrong girl. The desperate middle aged man who orders a mail order bride who leaves him once she gets her green card, etc . The examples are endless, but you get the point Women can be the singles greatest blessing or curse in your life.

Society has lied to you convincing you that girls (who are getting close to their highest peak in terms of sex drive) like sensitive men who write poems just as much as they like jocks, druggies, or bad boys who drive the nice cars.

Whereas girls were told: "Be obnoxious, arrogant and have a lot of maxie. Men should like you for you. And you can have it all." Boys are told to "be kind, sensitive, caring, and nice. Women are shallow for wanting your money. You are privileged and have all these advantages being male." As soon as you learn to accept that the problem is not you, but society as a whole, then and only then will you begin seeing LOVE for what it truly is A GAME."

Young ladies 18-early 20's: I'm 19, and have a condition that made me lose scalp hair, a lot of thinning happened and I really have no choice but to shave it skinhead, people say I pull it off well, I'm paler and skinny but my face and headshape work well with it. But the big concern is young women, I've read so many stories of guys on the Internet who lost hair young and say forget about the pretty girl. I don't want it to be true but there are a lot of them out there. And truthfully I admit looks matter to me, I have higher standards but it's something I take seriously I'm not some player I only need one attractive girl in the end, so what I mean by saying this is; I don't blame girls for wanting an attractive partner either, I'm just wondering if no hair young makes you unattractive. I just can't imagine an attractive girl who obviously has plenty of options most all if not all have hair, would choose the bald guy. So young women, could you date a shaved bald young guy, keep in mind it's full Howie Mandell skinhead not even a shadow. I don't want feel good answers I want the truth, and before you answer picture if one actually approached you and asked for your number or complimented you to gauge your true reaction on the spot. I appreciate honesty, thanks for your time.

When I was younger, it wasn't as hard to find a date as it is today. It seems like they raised the bar in order to be accepted now. Back when I was maybe 13 or 14, I wasn't really dating at that age but I don't remember people needing to meet The criteria's they need to meet in today's world. you can't have gone to jail or any of that stuff if you want to be excepted by a decent person. Women and men both expect you to have gone to college, But back in the day they only expected you to have a job. I guess the stipulations are still the same as far as children go, men and women don't like entering relationships when you have children with someone else already...
Imagine a simpler time: A well-dressed single gentleman pulls up to the front of a single lady’s home in the early evening, steps out of his car, and approaches her front door. The two of them were introduced to one another by a mutual friend at a social function some weeks prior.

It is their first date.

As she steps outside, he offers an umbrella to shield her from rain showers, walks with her to the passenger side of the car, and opens the door for her. She notices the interior of the car is spotless. The pair takes a scenic route to a special destination: a reserved table at an elegant restaurant. Conversation flows naturally for a couple hours, with each beginning to learn about the background and interests of the other. After dessert, the gentleman pays for the meal and then drives the lady home. Accompanying her to her door, he thanks her with a warm smile, and departs. This may be repeated on a regular basis, and could eventually lead to courtship and marriage, as the two get to know one another through hours of conversation, spread over months. How much has dating changed in recent years? Over the decades in the Western world, traditional dating was gradually overtaken by the high school “going steady/boyfriend-girlfriend” approach.

I'm an 18 year old guy who has some premature balding, it came on when I got medical exhaustion a while back and my body cut nutrients to non essential functions, (nails stopped growing etc) anyway normally the hair recovers but in my case it made it vulnerable to DHT the testosterone that causes baldness at an old age, now I'm not fully bald or receding really just thin all over so I opted to shave it, to the skin, so when I say I'm bald I mean Howie Mandell skin shaven head. People say it looks good on me. (Surprising as I'm a paler guy more on the slender side, but I've even had a friends girlfriend tell him 'I am worried because I don't think you'll pull it off as good as(insert my name here)-I couldn't even imagine him with hair.' When he asked if she would care if he shaved it. People say I look 21-22 who don't know me so it hasn't aged me, thanks to the baby face, and I really viewed it as something some girls wouldn't like but most wouldn't care about or even would like if I pursued them. However my confidence plummeted when I read on hairloss forums guys saying that being bald young is kryptonite to young women, you can forget about having an attractive young girlfriend, you'll have to severely lower standards if you want to date etc. And they used to pull all the girls and now nothing, I've never had a legit girlfriend and admit looks do matter I have decently high standards and girls do too, so will this make dating harder, and is it a dealbreaker for most young women? Please be honest and picture if one approached you at a party or on the street before you answer.