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I was seeing this girl for a year. We had some trouble spots, and we were still learning how to be in a relationship with each other.
Things were really good the month leading up to our break up. We talked so much, we supported each other, the sex was good, and I thought we were in a good place.
We revisited some things that came up from before we agreed to be exclusive, which hadn't been more than 4 months. I let slip that I was in love with her.
She asked for space and after a week I asked where we were and she said she wanted our relationship to end. She didn't think she could love me and that how I loved her was too much. She sited all these boundaries I crossed she never told me and she didn't have answers to questions I had. It was weird and sudden and the first time any of this had come up.
It's been two weeks, and I haven't heard from her. I tried to save it but she was in her head.

Is it likely after some time she'd reach out to me?

I had an ex from years ago reach out to get back together after 7 months being broken up. She went after me and it wasn't expected. But that one we had problems we didn't work on and it blew up. But she reached out to me.

I took the girl I'm seeing out on her birthday and we had a great time.
Two days later I called her, she called me back an explained that she was out eating with her two kids and their father celebrating her birthday and that she'd call me back. Which she did. Afterwards he did stop by her place to spend time with his kids.
I played everything cool. But is this really part of co parenting? She has in her past assured me her disdain of doing the co parenting and meeting up with the father and says she does it just for the kids. I do show her support on that.
But I do admit going out to eat or doing other things "together" does bother me, before I explain this to her I want to know other opinions what should I expect from her co parenting with the father of her kids. I don't want to be selfish and force something on her kids but I also feel that if they her and their father are not together then they are going to have to know eventually.
Should I expect her to tell me everything that they do or when or where they go? Should I trust her enough to where I shouldn't worry.