What are the odds she changed her mind and reaches out?

[Anonymous]

I was seeing this girl for a year. We had some trouble spots, and we were still learning how to be in a relationship with each other.
Things were really good the month leading up to our break up. We talked so much, we supported each other, the sex was good, and I thought we were in a good place.
We revisited some things that came up from before we agreed to be exclusive, which hadn't been more than 4 months. I let slip that I was in love with her.
She asked for space and after a week I asked where we were and she said she wanted our relationship to end. She didn't think she could love me and that how I loved her was too much. She sited all these boundaries I crossed she never told me and she didn't have answers to questions I had. It was weird and sudden and the first time any of this had come up.
It's been two weeks, and I haven't heard from her. I tried to save it but she was in her head.

Is it likely after some time she'd reach out to me?

I had an ex from years ago reach out to get back together after 7 months being broken up. She went after me and it wasn't expected. But that one we had problems we didn't work on and it blew up. But she reached out to me.

She'll reach out

She's gone

[SofiSin667]

Don’t look for her because that’s what she wants. She asked for space once so it’s your turn to keep it moving. Once she sees you’re moving on, she’ll come around but when she does... i suggest you forget her.

[Asker]

I had already unfriended her, deleted her number and blocked her on Instagram. She wouldn't really know I'm moving on...

[SofiSin667]

Girls always find a way to snoop but tbh... forget her. You should be with someone that wants to be with you and shows it with her actions.

[Asker]

I really thought she did. We had gotten into such a good place. Just she sucked at emotional stuff and she probably couldn't handle me being in love with her already.

[iamsafespace]

The impression I got: you wanna get back together with her.


We’ve no way to know for sure if she’ll come back or not but if you want her back, I’m wondering why you won’t reach out to her.

[Asker]

Cause of the way she ended things. Makes it seem like she didn't want this and I already tried hard to save the relationship

[iamsafespace]

But you were different people back then? But it’s really up to you if you’re willing to risk a rejection for another shot.

Otherwise, I agree with SofiSin667. It’s time to move on. I’d also say congrats on cutting off contact with her— now you can focus on yourself and open up to new and better ladies as potential partners. In my experience, getting over someone takes time but once it WILL happen. If you’re scarce on emotional support, feel free to hit me up :)

[Asker]

I mean, it's literally been two weeks. I was hoping maybe she'd change her mind or soul search.

I used my ex as an example cause it was all I've experienced. I'm not sure what lead to that happening that time.

But everything was so good and nothing was indicated. Everything in the breakup was out of nowhere.

Yeah, I cut her off cause I need her to be completely gone to forget her. But part of me still holds that she may change her mind.

[Asker]

Thanks. :)

[Guy13]

Dude she's pushing your buttons and one who does this isn't worth risking for. Let her go even if she chases you later.