I reconnected with an ex from 10 years ago recently. We always had good banter and sexual tension. So when i heard that he was going to be in the same country as i was, I propositioned him a lovers week, of a boyfriend girlfriend experience. He said he was game and thought all is good. When i picked him up at the train station we got on smoothly like no time had passed. Got to the hotel and asked if he is still cool with the arrangement, he kissed me as his response to him going all in.
So we slept together. the next day he was acting awkward tip toeing around me. when ever i sat close have some physical contact he became kinda awkward. We went out had couple drinks and we got back, i wanted to make out, just to get the juices flowing but he was just eager to get it on. i tried slowing him down and he took it as if i didn't want to.
Then he said he couldn't get it up anymore because of alcohol. which i told him, its fine and continue touching him but wasn't into it anymore, so we just slept. next day i just called him out and asked why was he so awkward. he says he likes to be touched but his mannerism shows otherwise. Then he said, the more he spends time with me he respects me and see more as a friend and doesn't know why he isn't able to get it up? i find it odd that this guy pursue me and flew to where i was. knew what was in store and suddenly went all weird?
Even after we drew the line of just being friends and not continuing the original arrangement, he was flirty. dropping sexual innuendos every chance he gets. Checks my body every chance he gets? he threw me off. whats the deal?
