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Why "Defending Yourself Against Bullies" isn't as Simple as you Think
I notice when ever someone mentions they were bullied, the first response from someone is "why didn't you defend yourself?" or "you need to learn to stand up for yourself". I myself have heard those words (being as I was...
Anonymous
(36-45) 5 Perplexing Qualities That Women For Some Reason Lie About Liking
As usual, I write this for my fellow men on GaG who are left confused by what women say they don't care about versus what can actually blow you out of the game either in dating or in just hooking up. Men, be forwarned...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 No guys approach me in college?
Okay so I'm a bit shy but I act like an extrovert so people can't really see my shyness... Lol I was super ugly in middle school but in my junior year in higgschool i blossomed and became more attractive that's when...
Anonymous
(30-35) I don't understand this?
I see girls go out with jerks and assholes. If the guy's white, they're ok. But, if he's Indian/Arab, he is stereotyped and hated. A white guy that talks shit to his girlfriend = ok, but an Indian guy = disrespectful...
Anonymous
(25-29) How does a moderately unattractive nerd go about finding a nerd girl?
So I'm overweight, not terribly but definitely bad, and I am also a nerd with social anxiety. I go to nerd clubs at my college and there aren't many girls there, at least who are single. I use OkCupid, but get next to no...
WardenOfFate
Xper 4 Age: 33 Why John Mayer is a Hero Of Men
I used to think I was the only guy who was down with JM Music. He seems to have gone from a female fantasy to more of a Bro who makes soft emotinal music that guys are into more than girls. I'm generalizing of course, but...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 I have a crush on a guy. How should I proceed?
I am a Sophomore in high school and he is a Junior. He is new to the school and came into my Honors Chemistry class last week. I always thought he was cute, but as last week progressed I noticed that he was extremely...
Eyeofthestorm1
Xper 4 Age: 26 Pls take a time for me to tell me whats wrong with me?
I had a really bad episode at the beggining of the year, i started getting drunk a lot and i met my current boyfriend drunk. I cry every week since then, but there we times i cried way more. I have a best friend, but now...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do I get dumped by geeks/nerds?
I'm feeling a bit self-conscious because my last 2 dating experiences with geeks didn't work past 3 months. I like geeks therefore they are in my mind, dated other sorts that didn't work past 3 months but don't really...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) How to approach a girl in different environments?
Ok so right off the bat, I'm a nerd. BUT I'm quirky, confident, far from shy (except when approaching new people, I'm not really shy but cautious), I can be funny depending on your sense of humor, I love learning and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Meeting someone I haven't seen for 15 years turns into a crush?
I left country X 15 years ago and I haven't seen let me call her X for 15 years. back then I was 10 years and she was 4 years old and now she is 19 and I am 26 years old. my family and her family are really close and her...
Anonymous
(36-45) Ranting about books
I am a book nerd and have been since I was a kid (seriously I got in trouble for reading past my bedtime, still do but now I fall asleep reading and wake up with a book on chest or in hands) so I felt inspired to rant...
ginnyweasley
Xper 6 Age: 29 Women Want Nice/Good Guys, Not Pushovers! Men and Women Create False Friendships.
Be Clear With Your Intentions and Create Real Relationships Many, many times I hear that girls always go for the "bad boys" or the "jerks". The reality is that it isn't how they are "bad" or a "jerk that makes them...
NervousToTheMax
Xper 6 Age: 38 Why do girls tell me to leave them alone over something harmless?
I'm going to be 100% real on this. So, I had three packs of gum that worths 25ยข each. I went up to one of my close female friends and asked the most annoying one if she want to buy a pack of gum for $5. I want to see if...
Anonymous
(25-29) My take on nerds
I realised officially what a nerd I am on the 15th of February 2012, when I was in Greece for holidays. I went to the theater with my two Greek friends....alright they're not exactly my friends, but when everyone else...
Strider90
Yoda Age: 34 How do I make friends?
I know the typical hi's how are you's my name is... blah blah blah i want a friend that i can joke with, call names, take places, call, tel them to meet me somewhere, tell them when im mad so they can calm me down...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I celebrate my birthday with them or no?
My birthday is on this Sunday, so I thought I could have a sleepover with my 2 closest friends (well that's what I thought they were). Anyway fuck that, I anyways thought they are different from me. God knows. So I was...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is it that I can never seem to be confident in myself and how can I "up my game"?
What I mean by this is that I'm not very confident in my looks despite being told over and over again that I'm attractive. The majority of girls I know find me attractive and I know this because they've told me or have...
Mystery234
Xper 4 Age: 30 What do I talk about with women who dont want to talk about the stock market, business, or technology?
I will be the first to admit that I am kind of a nerd, and I have horrible social skills so I struggle talking about things that I percieve not important (like sports, emotions, etc). Its just stuff I literally know...
Anonymous
(30-35) Computer science major advice?
How to get good grades and what should I know? How to have a social life? Where you can have a diverse social circle, with all kinds of people (nerds, athletes, gamers, movie goers, Whites, Asians, guy friends, and...
Anonymous
(25-29) 