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Long story short I had a situation with this guy for a couple years and only went on a couple dates but I was emotionally invested in him. I decided to end things after the second date because I realised I deserved better and was just sad/frustrated at the whole situation. I went back and forth on talking to him etc and talking about the situation (Where I ended it and how he was a jerk while we were trying to get to know each other ) I wasn't helping the situation either but thats beside the point) He has told me he's moved on.

He would say" Yes all I want is just sex" and kind of saying yes to what i assumed of him. Then recently we started talking and he said he's moved on from the situation but not over me. I would be the one messaging him. He would get frustrated at me, told me to f*ck off and that i'm annoying etc. I would ask if he's seeing anyone and he said no and the sites weren't for him.

I was talking to someone for the past two weeks, last week we began to communicate less & less. He was the one to initiate contact with me every time, I typically don’t make the first move. We used to video chat quite a bit during the week, last week we only did once. The first time he asked last week to video chat, I told him I wanted to reschedule. We ended up doing it Friday & spoke for around 2 hours. His last words were “Well, maybe we can do this again tomorrow” and I did not deny or confirm. We went without talking 2 days last week but he has not attempted to contact me since the call Friday. Neither have I obviously, I was perturbed & blocked him from Snapchat. I blocked him a while back on Instagram, he still has me added on PlayStation messaging. He can still message me on there but hasn’t. He’s being a jerk am I right?

Did he ghost me?

I've known of A LOT of guys to come at me with this, saying they like how I'm sassy. But sometimes the same guy will tell me I sound a little stuck up too, or that I was being a jerk or something. But it's weird because any time the guy mentions it, he has a smile on his face

So Is being sassy bad or not?

Do not know why I am incapable of finding a man. It’s mind boggling, I’m not that bad looking and take care of my appearance. On dating apps, when the guy makes the first move, at least the convo goes somewhere. When I make the first move, I never get anywhere. All my life has consisted of is guys I do not find attractive wanting to date me. And the ones I find good looking, are JERKS. Am I being too picky?

I do not know why I am incapable of finding a man. It’s mind boggling, I’m not that bad looking and take care of my appearance. On dating apps, when the guy makes the first move, at least the convo goes somewhere. When I make the first move, I never get anywhere. All my life has consisted of is guys I do not find attractive wanting to date me. And the ones I find good looking, are JERKS. Am I being too picky?

I don't know if I’m just unlucky (likely) but I cannot find a man to save my life. The ones I do not find attractive are attentive & the ones I find attractive are jerks. I only get somewhere when the guy messages first. The rare times I send the message first, it just doesn’t work out. Is it dating apps or am I doing something wrong?