Is my 27 year old sister jelous and over reacting that I am dating a guy that went to high school with her?

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I am 18 years old I am so mature for my age. My 27 year old sister she acts so inmature she is so jelous of me. I am dating this hot 28 year old guy he asked me to be his girlfriend. He even says that I am way more sexy and beautiful then my sister. He even said that my sister is hitting the expire date lol. Oh my god he is so cute and sexy. The sex is great I am trying to get pregnant with him. I even told me he wants to marry me. My sister she is jelous of me because I am more younger. My sister and my boyfriend went to high school together. He was the quarterback in the popular quarterback 🏈 football team at the time. My boyfr8end works at mcdonalds. My sister got so angry when she found out she says that he was a player back in high school that he got a lot girls pregnant back in high school and that he was a prankster. Not my fault he never put eyes on my sister. My sister and I got into an aurguement she says that he is way to old for me that I am an easy target for him. My sister she is so old and jelous because I am younger and win chances with the hot guy she could never date. My sister also went of on even saying that my boyfriend has serious issues only because he isn't dating girls his age that why is he chasing after 18 year olds. She even called my guy a looser for working at Mcdonalds according to my sister my boyfriends should have move up to the next level after all this years by now. Worst thing she told my parents and my parents scream at me but what can I expect my parents are old 50 year olds. Thanks to my sister it got worst she told my parents lies about my man how he was a jerk at high school. Well my sister was a geek. How can I make my sister face it that he wants me and not her?

Vencam · Accepted Answer

Despite the angry tone other used when answering this question, I think they make some fair point. Let me explain why:
1) I don't know your sister's personality, but it seems unlickly to me that she would go as far as tell your parents if she wasn't really concerned about you (read on for the reasons why she's so concerned)
2) It is not improbable that your sister is right about him playing you. Again, I don't know either your sister or your boyfriend, but you can find out yourself if he really got other girls pregnant or not, that's a pretty big claim from your sister. If he did, I would be wary of him and the sincerity of his emotions. Many say "I love you so much" only to turn things around when they don't feel like it anymore or need to commit more then they want to.
3) The way you're talking about it makes me think you're judging this whole thing just with your feelings and not your head: is your sister such a petty person that she would go as far as ruining your relationship just out of envy?
4) If you call yourself "mature" (personally I doubt you are as much as you seem to think you are, but not the point) DO NOT use pregnancy just to force your relationship on your family or him. That's how a child would think about it and it doesn't take into consideration both your future prospects and the child's well being. So please, PLEASE, DO NOT get pregnant (or even fake it) for this reason. It's petty, selfish and (if you will have a child) terrible for the future of your children.
I can explain this last point in more detail if you want, as it is an important one

Laozi · Accepted Answer

Actually, your sister is right and you're the one who's really immature. You don't have enough experience to differentiate between a good guy and a player. Your sister is concerned about you and trying to save you from an asshole. Instead of blaming her, you should listen to her and leave that guy.

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

How about you grow the hell up? You sound very disgusting as a person, your sister was only trying to protect you not hurt you. The guy is more likely using you for sex and you don't seem to really care. That's fine, but the fact that she had to tell your own parents just goes to show that you're not mature enough to handle those issues. She is the one that went to school with him. She would know him a heck of a lot better than you would. Plus he's ten times basically your age and you're too much immature 18 year old who thinks she knows everything when she really doesn't.

You and this guy is disgusting. Sorry to say. But truth is truth. Because your attitude is nowhere near that of an adult. I highly doubt your sister wanted anything to do with him anyway. I think he's just mad because she didn't by the opening up her legs to him. So now he came after you. She is not jealous of you so get that out of your head.

nandinikhaneja · Accepted Answer

See girl, you are just 18!! You need to be concerned for your future, not thinking about getting pregnant!!>
You have your whole life for that, but right now, think about your career first.. secure yourself with a good career because if by chance your boyfriend breaks up with you, you wouldn't need to isolate yourself, you will then busy yourself with a career..
And , please trust your parents and your sister, nothing is important in your life than Family.. if your sister is saying something about that guy.. she is not jealous of you rather she is giving you a warning.. Try not to fight with your sister, instead try to know more about the guy, what's his history, how was his reputation!! you need to have a caring and loving guy which needs to accepted by your family, not some guy who is acting like a barrier between you and your family..;

Anonymous · Answer

Lmao, whoa where do I start? Your spelling is abysmal. Your grammar is sad, and your attitude? Tragic. I’m an elder sister and I’d be furious if creeps were honing on my sister. Instead of acting like an immature and horny child, maybe listen to her before judging her.

You really seem like a terrible bitch from just your post alone. Calling people old and ignoring them BC you’re younger? News flash hon, if she’s right and he just wants a younger lay then you’re the one being stupid. I hope you don’t get pregnant so that baby doesn’t suffer any consequences based on your inability to make proper decisions.

Jealous* loser* expiration date* boyfriend* argument*

Honestly McDonald’s isn’t something to brag about so..
Walmart pays better, just saying

“He was the quarterback in the popular quarterback” wtf is that even English?

Lynx122 · Answer

I don't know I think you're overreacting a bit. It's fine if you like him but yo almost like him too much it seems to me.

palsra · Answer

I guess you should listen to her She might be knowing your br better than you know as she has studied with him

Plitty-Tank · Answer

Probably so. Rivalries happens in families. If you can't have him, you don't want your sister having him.

OddBeMe · Answer

I don't know but he sounds like a loser. I wouldn’t want a McDonald’s worker for a father. Or a SO.

Anonymous · Answer

ok hun shut up lol you sound stupid

Lightning8 · Answer

ok gross 😑

Anonymous · Answer

TLDR but yes.

Is my 27 year old sister jelous and over reacting that I am dating a guy that went to high school with her?

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