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So I've had a bit of a crush on a guy friend for a while and I think (or at least thought) he kind of likes me too. Right now it's very early days but I was telling one of my best friends about it and she pointed out that I'm taller than him and said it would be weird if we dated. Now I'm just over 5'8 which is not huge but pretty tall for a girl, and he's just under 5'8. I honestly hadn't really noticed until she pointed it out since I know him from school and I'm used to seeing him when I'm slouched over with a heavy school bag on my back, but now I'm worrying he'll have an issue with it too. It's not really very noticeable unless I'm wearing heels but I love heels and as an ex-short person (I was 5 foot nothing until I was 16) I love being tall and being able to see over heads in a crowd is still a bit of a novelty for me. I've kind of come into my own in the last year a bit (I grew eight inches and have boobs now) but I've liked this guy since before that and in my head he's still taller than me... I guess I was wondering if there's any point hoping it wouldn't be an issue for him? How would you feel about dating a girl taller than you? Especially if she was unwilling to give up high heels? I know I should probably just ask directly and try and be subtle but I've been told in the past I'm about as subtle as a rampaging elephant and I'm kind of shy and scared of rejection. I guess I was just wondering how would most guys feel about this?

So my ex boyfriend who was abusive and cheated on me with my sister is who this post is about. About a year in our relationship he began wetting the bed and I was very supportive. Even though he put his hands on me and treated me like crap. As a last ditch effort I went to his mom about it who then told me that he did this in school and she had a bunch of tests ran with no issues at all causing this. Finally he admitted to her that he wanted to wear diapers again and had been wetting on purpose. She didn't let him and through the years found wet diapers he had gotten hidden in his room. After talking to her I wasn't going to even bring it up. Hoping if that was the case he would tell me. Then I caught him with my sister. He begged me not to leave and so a light went off. I told him I would stay if he told me why he had wet the bed and that he better not lie bc I spoke with his mom. So in tears he told me he wanted to wear diapers and be treated like a baby. I agreed, but on my terms. I was in charge and if he wanted to be treated this way it would be a constant thing. Even in front of friends, family, and strangers. He was worried, but agreed. So I began taking action. With his mom's help our spare bedroom became his nursery. With a crib. High chair and changing table. I began taking him in public in his diapers, onesie, and pacifier. He had to use his diapers. The toilet was off limits. My friends often came over, teasing him. We aren't together anymore. I moved on. He now lives at his mom's again and is still in diapers 24/7. I go from time to time to talk to her and check on him for a laugh.
Seeing how abusive he was, cheated on me, and lives like this with all his relatives and people in town knowing what should I do?