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"I have found that younger girls are open to discussing anything and actually having new/fun experiences. Not to mention that most activities actually ARE new/fun for them and they aren't biased old hags who have constructed a series of specific expectations and likes/dislikes that they expect everyone to conform to.

I have dated up 3 years older and down a full decade younger (most recent ex was 18). I can tell you it's much more fun to have a highly sexually active partner that gets excited about everything then listen to older women whine and complain like they are post menopause (even though they haven't even started it). I hang out with crowds of all ages.

I'm 28 so I'm smack dab in the middle of this conversation bracket and I am finding that I cannot stand most people over 26. It's not even a maturity issue. There is nothing "mature" about desperately looking for a man that will provide your old used up self with expensive dates and a free mortgage, constantly repeating ancient stories or workplace gossip, or constantly making the same Facebook jokes about how you're such a wine-o and love your pet more than your own life. I get it, once a girl turns into a boring old woman she only drinks wine. Hahaha! Funny! New material please.

I'm a single dad (full custody of my only child) and I cannot stand single mothers. It has absolutely nothing to do with them having kids and everything to do with the "mom" personality and the fact that their emotional baggage/problems far, far outweigh their *actual* baggage/problems.

Older men are often not any better to hang out with either. Basically, everyone starts becoming the old annoying parent stereotype we all hated as kids. I highly doubt I will ever date anyone older than 25. I was engaged once, dodged that bullet. I never want to get married.

That said, there are some smoking hot 30 year olds... just remember, that same girl would look 200x better 10 years younger."

Female hypergamy is essentially boils down to women will only see you as a potential mate if they perceive you are better than them.
It's one of the reasons assholes do better than nice guys in getting women and not all the feminist propaganda that nice guys aren't really nice but because assholes disrespect and don't care about a girls opinion which sets off in the woman's brain that he must be better than her.

To expand on this point, if done to early on and without the woman thinking she earned it is perceives by her as a male pandering up to her to get sex/relationship and not actual kindness. Women only usually perceive kind gestures as just that once they've given up sex and the man still continues being sweet/kind to them.

Now the thing about hyper gamy with women is it's not tied only to one thing like physical or wealth but everything including attitude. A man does not necessarily need to tick off being better in all areas but enough that it is drilled into a woman's psyche that he is better than her. It's for this reason a guy can be shorter than a girl but rich, and confident and get the girl.


We see hypergamy of women in their dating preference such as wanting men who make more money than them, be taller than them, higher social status, more confident, more accomplished than her, more exciting live etc.

The problem with hypergamy is as a woman rises up in the world and become better the amount of men who matches her criteria of being on her level or more becomes smaller and smaller. This leads to fewer pool of men available for her to select making it frustrating. With more women graduating from college than men this means that the dating pool for college graduate women are going to be smaller.

It's Not Your Imagination, Single Women: There Literally Aren't Enough Men Out There