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Guy #1
We have been talking for a week, we seem to have things in common. We both seem to think alike, he seems more mature, asks me questions about myself. He has been talking about our third date when we haven't met yet. He is a straightforward and honest guy. We exchanged numbers and he asked what I am going to put him as caller ID "Hubby?" he said he would be Future wifey for me. That's the way he flirts. He put a nickname for me on his caller ID. (not future wifey just shorten my names) We could talk for hours and hours. He said he wants to talk to me all day every day. Then yesterday I didn't hear much from him and later that night he said "sorry I have been kind of busy, wanted to get away from the phone" but I saw him on another app we were talking on before. He said he wants the relationship to be serious and just started talking about the future dates. He seems to want to rush to get into a relationship. He also has told his friends about me and they said sounds like someones in love.
Guy #2
We also have been talking for a week as well, he has been more sexual. We both are attracted to each other, we have a couple things in common but we haven't really got to know each other, we just have been snapping selfies. Then he said if I'm uncomfortable just let him know. Communication is key. He said if you don't want to do "more" (If you know what I mean) on the first date then we don't have to. He likes a girl who is straightforward and honest. He also has told his friends about me saying he is seeing someone. I haven't met him yet but I will be soon. We just have been talking like that mostly. When I asked another question he said "you ask a lot of questions" jokingly. Then I didn't ask the question and he said, Don't be afraid to ask the question. I like both guys in different ways.

Hey there..
Umm.. its kinda complicated ;but try to get me ok !
I have this relative that I have deep connection with..
I haven't met him in a loong time till last year i saw him in my aunt's & he was depressed his life went upside down careless dad divorce u know mom who told him i dont care about u...
Anyways..
So i felt his pain cuz i am going through circumstances too.. i tried to get closer to him i made him get out of his room we hang out he was a bit awkward he is a VIRGO and i am ofc a CANCER so gradually i feel something towards him I don't know if its a motherly feeling or its love , he stayed with me in my room for more than a month. We played games we watched movies and other stuff. We had sex as well. I told him i have a crush on him. But he seemed not into me or hesitated tho i can feel he never wants to lose me so.. i care about him so much and i miss him.. i tried my best to get him out of his misery and i succeeded or at least there is a huge improvement in his life. He works now. Today he travelled to another country for business course.. Im happy for him..
The weird thing is lately i feel he kinda gets jealous when i mention other guys for ex: friends from facebook. He asks questions who is this why he texted a heart emoji he confuses me ! I mean if i was friendzoned he wouldn't be jealous !! If i am more than a friend to him whats taking him so long..
The connection we have is sweet mutual respect and any argument that might hurt any of us we drop it automatically either him or me..
He cares about my feelings too as u know cancers are very sensitive...
Im confused !
I don't know what should i do?

Am i rushing things?
Or i am just an obsessed creep?
Tell me

A guy and I had a friendship which then turned into something more but then we both parted our ways, being that he wasn't ready for a relationship and I was more serious so we respected each other enough to part ways.

We both tried reaching out to each other but never really got anywhere. We haven't seen each other since November...

Finally, I got the guts to message him randomly and he asked when I'm coming around again and then during a conversation he asked if I had a boyfriend really random. Had asked when we are going to a spot we had gone to before.

I'm scared to go back to how it was, I want to take it slow and this time I'm okay with not rushing things but also want to make sure I'm not being taken for granted either. I miss our connection and company.

We have been talking for 4 months and we've only seen each other 3 times. We don't talk on the phone often and the most we do is really texting. One thing I can tell you for sure is that he does really like me.
According to him, he's supposed to be single. He told me that he wants a relationship and he don't want to rush into one. He wants to make sure before. I totally understand that. However, I've never been dating someone where in the beginning he has limited availability. He also changes plans pretty last minute. He has a lot of secretes that he's not telling me to a point that it's now shady. The only thing I really know is where he works, his confusing work schedule, he bought a house with his sister and lives with his mother, he gambles, and I know his address. I know it's now not yet committed so he doesn't have to tell me where he is every day. One thing he did say is that he's not seeing/talking to any other women and, he told me not to see any other men. One day, i got fed up and told him i'm done. He got very nervous and called me telling me how much he wants me and don't see other men.

Weird thing #1, i lost my earring and he later told me he found it however, the earring was not mine. After that, he disappeared for 2 days and back to normal. Weird thing #2, he sent me a picture of himself through the mirror and I saw him wearing a band ring on his left hand on his 4th finger. I questioned him, and he just said that's where he wears his ring. I do see other photos of him wearing different rings on that same finger. Weird thing #3, he slept over one night, and he told me he has to leave at 5am. He woke up at 8:30, stormed out, and forgot some of his stuff. One thing I do know for a fact is that his sister does live at the same address as him. I just don't know if there's other people living there.

He does tell his friends about me and his friends do know about me. He also invited me to his work party (but don't know if he's just all bluffing).