Search Results: the guy who truly cares

I've experienced this a couple of times. It was either because I had feelings for a person who didn't feel the same way back or because we broke up and I still had feelings. Whenever I met/saw that person (either an ex or someone who I had feelings for that didn't have feelings for me) I almost always was distant, cold, tried to ignore any sort of confrontation or any situation where I had to speak to them. If I did find myself talking to them, I'd almost always act polite, but also very distanced and even a bit irritated. There's only one time I truly was irritated and rude and that was towards a girl who dumped me and now had a new boyfriend, and that was because I was really hurting.

I've also experienced meeting up with someone who I had nothing for anymore. You know, when you're either completely over that person or you never truly felt anything in the first place. Towards those girls, I'd act nice, normal, kind. I would talk to them, joke with them. Although I liked them as a friend/ex, I felt indifferent towards them. Didn't care too much if I ever saw them again or if they wanted to maintain a friendship or not.

Now, those two scenarios are really what's been going through my head after I recently met a girl I had a fling with. We were over, but I still had feelings for her when we met up at a party of a friend of ours. Same night, she'd act normal, but a little cold and distant. I kept to myself, talked to other girls and she would then seem a bit jealous. At one point, she would be really mean towards me and then she would ignore me and dance with another guy at the party. She would deliberatly hug him when I looked, but then she would also act irritated when talking to me. When I confronted her, and told her I was hurt by her behaviour, because I felt something for her, she said she doesn't have feelings for me. Then when I said I think we should stop talking and cut contact, she stormed off angry as hell.

Thoughts? Als