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Just recently I’ve felt like me and my boyfriend haven’t connected. We haven’t had sex or kissed in the past two and a half weeks because I was sore and my lip flared up from picking at it sorry if too much info. Just recently he texted me asking me how he was supposed to put pto in to not come into work because he slept late. The way he asked me he seemed demanding about getting the answer as if I needed to work on his time. Like it’s not my fault you were late to work. So he called me later that day and FaceTime me and I didn’t say much on the phone. About a hour after us being on the phone it talking be hung up without saying anything and I immediately texted back asking why he hung up he could’ve at least said okay I’m hanging up. He didn’t answer me from 11 pm that night to 3 pm the next day. I was for sure he left me on read and wasn’t sure how he could be asleep that long he was just posting on Facebook earlier that morning. So I texted him back and called and he finally answered. Turned out he was still sleep around 3 pm. So I hung up and said I would talk to him later. I was fed up because I hadn’t heard from him. I blocked him to give him his own medicine because he said if he texts someone and they don’t respond after a while he blocks them. So I did just that and to let him know that I was upset. When we argued he said he was sick of this. So basically I eventually unblocked him after a day or two and he seemed to not wanna get with me. He said find god and come back other than that stay gone. He calls me ma and told me yesterday that he misses me and that he still has love for me and loves me. He texts me everyday. He told me I’m hot. But when I asked if we could get back together he said he doesn’t want to be in a relationship right now. What is this supposed to mean? What should I do? I don’t have time to be led on either. You either want to get back or not. Should. I talk to him about it one more time before I emotionally detach?

i just got in a new relationship and all of a sudden my life just seems to be taking a turn for the worse.
my boyfriend is very loving and the best boyfriend i have ever had. we just started dating a month ago.
in just a week of dating, my abusive ex came to my house randomly and started begging me to take him back after it’s been 6 months of being broken up. he sent me gifts and has been emailing me and getting in contact with me however he can.
a week after that, an old classmate/“friend” i had, messaged me on instagram asking me why i told him to never come by again. he sexually assaulted me while i had fallen asleep while studying with him one time.
i told my boyfriend everything because honesty and openness is important to me and he seems to be understanding, he knew that it really bothered me. i am goin through a depressive time right now and i know i have a lot of emotional baggage that i never expected to deal with. he is still in love with me and is there for me… but sometimes i feel so guilty.

would you leave if you dealt with this with your new girlfriend?