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Yeah, that happened to me today.
I met this guy around the time I was having problems with my now ex boyfriend.
I asked a question about something he was doing.
Then he replied with his opinion and then we talked for a while and eventually it moved on to private messaging.
I reallyyy LIKED this guy and he helped me realize me and my exboyfriend's relationship wasn't healthy.
We talked for like hours that night and I just really LIKED him but it was just a crush.
The thing is though I just got out of a bad relationship.
I didn't want to get into a relationship yet.
I told him this once I realized we might be catching feelings for each other.
At the time I feel like I was in a really bad place.
Me and my ex were together for 2 yearsit was a serious relationship.
I wasn't sure what I was feeling for him but I was sure that I liked him.
Here's the twist this all happened over the course of 4 days! 4 days.
So I think yesterday he told me he loved me.
I wasn't sure what to think and I wanted to keep him around but I didn't feel like I was in love with him.
But I told him I loved him anyway mainly because I didn't want to hurt him.
So he started saying it more and the more I said it the guiltier I felt.
So the next day I told him...
It was a mess.
He was not listening.
He was convinced that I was scared?
And told me to follow my heart.
I am following my heart my heart is saying no.
I also told him that I have a hard time saying no to people.
I really feel like he took advantage of me.
I am in a bad place right now.
I don't want another relationship right now, and he says he loves me?
When we've only been talking for like 4 days!
I'm just confused and tired.
I admit I was so wrong for doing that l apologized multiple times.
I just still wish he didn't say that to me I liked him but never loved.
I didn't want to hurt his feelings but I think it would have been better if I had just told him.

If a guy claims he cares about you and likes you but says he isn’t ready to commit to a relationship with you at the moment (due to him being fresh out of a breakup), does this mean he actually just doesn’t WANT to be with you or that he genuinely doesn’t think he CAN bc of his emotional state? So basically I got friendzoned by a guy who confessed a huge crush on me while he was with his girlfriend and I was with my boyfriend. We both broke up with our partners and ended up trying to make “us” work but it was just too soon for him. Does this mean he just lost interest in me or does he just want to take things seriously with me?