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Met someone wonderful and pushed her away. What can I do?

Around a year ago I met this wonderful woman under unconventional circumstances. We had great chemistry and we clicked. Everything was going great over a month ago. While I feel she was giving it serious thought I don't...
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Can a guy have liked girls all his life, then suddenly stop?

I grew up with my crush, and I remember vividly the moment he first started being into girls. He always had "crushes" but when he was around 13 it turned into sexual attraction, and completely changed the dynamics of our...
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How to help my boyfriend?

Firstly, I'm just going to say that me and him are now gradually going to go back to being friends as he does not put enough effort in the relationship and I keep feeling like something is wrong with it, I've tried going...
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Girls, can I actually get better?

So, after about two years of sweeping it under the carpet pretending to be ok I finally had to see my doctor recently and was diagnosed with anxiety and depression. I have pills and the opportunity to see a councillor, I...
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6 Things You Should Never Say To Women

As a girl who grew up with mostly women, the only men I knew were my dad and brothers who were rarely present. And also, going to a girls-only school my whole life, I feel I know enough about women, and what can make a...
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Friend lied to me and is now dating my crush, how do I handle this?

A little back story. I like this girl and for a little while I thought she liked me too. Whenever I wanted to ask her out I felt like she sensed it and she got cold or whatever, I still like her but I understand nothing...
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How to get over it?

I dated this guy who was my first love & everything who turned out to be a douche... And basically he called me fat, well his exact words being "I wish you were skinnier" For some reason this really deeply hurt me as...
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I lost confidence because of my controlling boyfriend and I used to be really confident?

We have been dating for a year, many ups and downs, long story short... he hasn't complimented me for so long, he texted his ex (she is beautiful model) once and it really hurt me (but those weren't love messages, just...
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Losing confidence in dating and myself, am I doing something wrong?

I broke up with my ex of seven years earlier this year (we'd grown apart). After a month or so, I felt ready to date again but the whole scene was.. and still is completely foreign to me. It started off feeling like a job...
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Yes, I'm A Cheater And Here's Why

For the purposes of this article, when I refer to "cheating" I am not referring to anything physical (such as sex or kissing), but emotional cheating. AKA - conversations, going out for coffee, dates etc. 1. I wasn't...
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I always lose him to drugs, will he regret it in the future?

I dated a guy 3 years ago. I left him because I was in college and wanted to focus. He got high all of the time, he had no life goals or motivation. He said he wanted to be a rapper but never tried. He came back 7 months...
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Boyfriend told me he finds others more attractive, knowing I have low self esteem, what the?

I've had low self esteem for a while now and he knows it. Now that he's actively told me he thinks someone is hotter than me, my confidence is at rock bottom. It was bad enough for me to hear that he thinks other women...
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Is my coping mechanism 'harsh' and unfair?

I was in a situation a few years ago where i fell deeply in love with my best friend who just didn't feel the same way about me as i did her (we never dated) anyway she had a boyfriend all the time i was in love with her;...
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Eating disorder and being fat ! SOS?

Guys I have something really annoying me to hell death right now , 5 years ago I was 120 pounds after gone through a depression ! Now I am 200 pounds at least and fat , I feel like I lost confidence , and I feel ugly......
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How do I gain confidence with my disability around girls?

I'm a 19 year old disabled/deformed first semester freshman college student. With a 3.51 midterm grade. (Disability/Deformity): Scoliosis and short torso with scaring on my back and stomach. At times I would find...
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How do I face him at the same party after he ghosted me and left me hurt? I choose most helpful?

I've been talking with this guy for 4 months and everything started amazing between us. He introduced me to his family, friends, and we hung out every weekend acting all coupley and touchy. He gets jealous when other boys...
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GaGers Speak Out About Their Mental Health Experiences, Part 2

Recently, I asked member of GaG about their experience with mental illness, and wrote about it in Part 1 of this myTake series. Many members responded to me question, but @redeyemindtricks went above and beyond, going...
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Guys, should I forgive and forget?

I'm married. He's almost everything I could have ever dreamed of... except... A little over a year ago a found something that was sent to an ex of his. This ex was everything Im not. Beautiful, exotic, and... well.....
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Why won't my boyfriend speak to me?

I have been dating this boy since my freshman year of high school, right now we're both freshmen in college. In all of those years of dating we have only broken up once because he refused to communicate with me about our...
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Why do I care so much?

The messages below are me and my 10th grader crush talking, his messages are the white ones and mine are the gray ones. Yes he's okay with talking and hanging out with me and he's aware that I like him. My Behavior •I...
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