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Girls, why are guys who work out a lot automatically labeled by girls as narcissistic d-bags?

I was an overweight guy during high school and my first year of college.  I eventually got tired of always being left out of dating and always being seen as the nice, fat friend (and nothing more) by girls.  So two years...
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How do I know he still wants to be with me?

I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 months now.. during the first few months.. he makes more effort in planning dates.. is more affectionate and romantic. After a month of him chasing me.. i said yes to be his gf....
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Where Are Your New Year's Resolutions?

My take on New Year's Resolutions. New year resolutions, sounds familiar right? I know you had made so many promise to yourself that next year, I will do this, I will stop that, I will... the list goes on, but one...
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First date (s) rules? Help?

I've been on a few dates with this guy - he's nice I like him but there's one thing putting me off. On all our dates he'll buy me a drink or coffee but when we go to eat a meal or do an activity like the zoo or aquarium -...
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PUA Pickup Artists... Are You One?

So a friend recommended a weird seminar to go to this past weekend - he really wanted to go, but not alone, so he wouldn't feel like a 'loser'. It was a talk for men on something called the PUA movement: Pick Artists. I...
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Is it really worth staying single for the majority of my life?

I ask because since I come from a poor family background, I'm a college student who's really trying to do the best with my GPA and degree program so I can get a financially stable life (something that my parents never...
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Outdated Gender Roles: What's wrong with society?

I tend to be a very quite person, except on things that peeve me. One thing in the world that REALLY grinds my gears are Gender Roles/Stereotypes. These crazy outdating things that not only screw up the dynamics of...
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Am I being too pushy? or just overthinking?

The followings are the texts 1 hour after our first date went well. I think I was being too pushy. Me : Hey, I'm home :) Me : It was really a pleasure to meet you and I had a great day. Her : Oh cool :) I had a great...
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Boyfriend doesn't offer to walk me to my car after a sleepover? And seems to be getting lazier in his efforts In general?

My boyfriend has always offered to walk me to my car after a sleepover and brunch. But that was when we were already out. This morning he suggested ordering breakfast delivery and watching a movie. We hadn't done that...
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Is he telling the truth?

I have been with my boyfriend almost three months. He's my first, everything... I love him so much but I question sometimes if he appreciates me as much as I appreciate him. I'll start by saying neither of us has a lot of...
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How should I handle this delicate situation?

I've been with this guy for a little over a year. We dated 4 months before moving in together. We are both 23. The first time we lived together we lasted for 5 months. He did something that hurt my feelings so I contacted...
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Girlfriend never offers to pay? Is she using me?

We've been dating for about 3 months. She is really great and I like spending time with her, but I sort of get the sense that she's using me. She hasn't offered to pay for anything at all. I have no problem paying, but I...
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How often should I pay/let him pay?

I've been dating my boyfriend for just about a month and a half. I've never liked the idea of the guy always paying, because it feels very outdated to me as well as unfair. I always let a guy pay on the first date if he...
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Why do I ike just one certain type of men?

I been single for quite a while. I have not been able to find someone yet that i am really into. I have been approached by men but i turned them down for certain reasons. One or two of them had been inlove with me for...
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Help I have a date with this guy amd I can't even look him in the eyes?

I've known this guy for 5 month now and when I first met him I was crushing on him big time but due to past situations with other guys, I decided to tell him that I like him cuz i wanted to know the answer and I was sick...
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Should I pay for the first date?

I have a date soon and we are going to meet up at the movies for the first time. Should I be paying for the both of us, or should we be paying seperately? What is the right thing to do?
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I'm having a my first date ever, on Valentine's Day, with a great friend of mine for lunch. What should I do/expect from and with her?

Background: I had a medical condition during my high school years (she graduated with me last year) and she was very concerned about how I was coping with it. She would help me a lot to cope with what I had. She would...
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Travelled to surprise gf for Valentine's day, no warm welcome... ?

So I travelled 350 km to surprise my 2 months gf for Valentine's day/weekend and when she saw me at first she laughed and smiled, but after that we went to a café she was silent and looking at the wall, roof, down... the...
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When would women actually take card out of their purse?

This question has been nagging me quite sometime. I know that it is almost universal that man pays on first date. And I have no issues with it. In fact I don't have any issues paying for ever. But for some reason I feel...
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What's the logic behind a guy paying for a girl on a first date?

This is in response to another question I answered. Couldn't believe how so many working women today expect a man she's just met to pay for her bills on a date. I'd love to hear the logic behind that.
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This is in response to another question I answered. Couldn't believe how so many working women today expect a man she's just met to pay for her bills on a date. I'd love to hear the Show More
Guy should pay for a girl
Each pays their own bill
Who ever asks the other out should pay the full bill
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