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Family 1 Background info: I have a client I work with who is a young girl 18. She's currently getting surgery so she's in the hospital and will be there for a month. Anyways, she is a vegetable no offense but I blame that on the parents for waiting so long and not taking medical advice. I dont feel the client is progressing and she hasn't since I've known her. Her parents are in denial of her mental capacity.

Family 2 Now: I met a new family while my client is in the hospital to work with. I like this client a whole lot better. Her parents are progressive, open to advancing their child, open to me helping their child out in learning and from a medical prospective they're more of a team effort. The little girl is so much fun and full of life. The environment is beautiful. They want someone long term for their child. And her condition is complicated which I like because I would love to learn more about children with her type of conditions. They want her to go to school but need a school nurse. I want her to go to school and learn.

Would you stick to family 1 or venture out to family #2?

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Most women and girls these days wear makeup, contact lens, thread their eyebrows which looked the same most of the time as for dyeing their hair, it’s getting common but not extremely common due to the job they had. Most of the time when they see me, they look a while and didn’t give a shit which was a good thing, since I hated being stared at. Then at my previous job as an IT Helpdesk agent, Dorcas the marketing assistant sometimes kept looking at me. The first time she looked at me, her expression then changed to soul mood, she even looked at me from head to toe like she was comparing herself to me.

She had eyelash extensions, makeup, contact lens and dyed hair. The second time, I was in a bus waiting for the bus to drop at a specific bus stop so I can get off, that’s when I felt that someone was staring at me, when I looked up from my phone, I saw another girl. She was the same race as me, with dyed blonde hair, makeup, contact lens and threaded eyebrows. She was already glaring at me, not staring at me in a polite way. The way she stared at me was very uncomfortable, I didn’t recognise her because she was a random stranger and not someone I knew. There was a hint of jealousy from her expression. Firstly I didn’t wear any makeup, wear any contacts, thread my eyebrows to look like a Korean star and lastly I didn’t dye my hair whatsoever. And yet she was jealous of me like what the heck? Sometimes being a woman doesn’t mean I understand all women. The reasons why I didn’t put in effort to look very attractive was because: 1: I didn’t want to spend money unnecessarily. 2: I didn’t want to attract attention and 3: I didn’t want to get jealous looks.

I always thought that me not beautifying myself won’t make anyone jealous at all but still there will always be some others who wants to compare themselves to me. It seems I was extremely naive when I thought that not beautifying myself means not a single person will be jealous.