Girls, how do I start talking to this girl at the gym?

[Anonymous]

There's this girl at my gym, whenever we're both at the gym we look at eachother and usually look away smiling. I think she likes me. I feel like we're both waiting for the other one to make the first move and start a conversation. How do I approach her?

[Geminixx]

If she looks away smiling she wants you to approach her. Try not to put too much pressure on it and make it very light and casual.
Just find a convenient moment, maybe after you make eye contact with her and go talk to her! You could simply say "Hi. How's it going?" Or "Hi. How are you?". After that you could ask what's her name, you introduce yourself, talk about something related to the gym... And then the conversation should flow naturally. No need to complicate or force anything, basically talk to her like you would talk to any person you don't know, just with a bigger smile on your face 😉

[Geminixx]

Or even better your first conversation could be simply saying hi, introducing yourselves and then you go back to doing your thing at the gym. Just a short move from you. Then with time you can also evaluate by her behaviour if she wants you to continue talking to her or not 😊

[Yurrasis]

Next time you see her you can just wave a little 'hi' to her and continue your workout. She may wave back or even approach you. If not, next time you meet up again you can do the same and approach her and start the convo off with, "Hey, it's funny how we recognize each other but never say hi."

Carry on the convo by introducing yourself. She'd most likely introduce herself to you too. Just make sure when you talk to her it's at the right time and place and not in the middle of a workout set or in a busy area. Don't want people waiting for the equipment or having to move around you two.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

You could approach her on the way out, not while she is working out. All women approach men first, I am one of them. Shoot your shot.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

Whoops I had a typo, I meant "NOT ALL women approach men first." I dont approach I rather be approached.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

This app really should alway us to at least edit once or twice its annoying

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

Allow*** you see 😭😭😭 I type differently to what I think

[Subarugirl]

You don't women don't want to be approached at the gym. How would you feel if you were working out and some guy approached you while you're in the middle of you work out to ask you for your number.

[Asker]

I'm not approaching a random girl. I think she wants me to approach her from her looks and body language towards me.

[Subarugirl]

If she is into you she will approach you or you can approach her after

[1millonlies]

I would try once she leaves the gym. Catch up to her in the parking lot.

[xJayleenx]

Maybe if she’s lifting weights you could ask her if she needs help with that

[Blonde401]

Try and approach her on her way out if you can and say hello and have a conversation

[Anonymous]

You can't approach her but you have to approach her. Good luck. Lol. Leave her a note that only she will find. Secret admirer. Valentines day...

[adimee02]

It’s sometimes best to wait until after.