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My wife of 5 years just told me for the first time that at the age of 15 she was taken advantage of and hooked up with a 20 year old.
I beleive she feels very regretful of this and victimized.

When we first got serious she made a very large point that i had to tell her everything about my past seeing before i met her i had a long term battle with depression. I also thought she told me everything about herself but seemed to have left this out.

So when she asked how i felt about the situation i told her that im shocked, didn't quite know what to say but was conernced for her but also i felt somewhat cheated as she expected me to share everything about myself and she didn't do the same which left me wondering what else i dont know about her.

This made her very defensive and angry and told me i was making it all about myself. She now regrets telling me at all and think i shouldn't have told her how i felt and just been concerned about her feelings.

Just wondering if im in the wrong for feeling this way.
This does not change how i feel about her what so ever but i do feel hurt and she doesn't get it.

Just wondering if im in the wrong here or if im justified to feel this way

Thank you