'' I don't think I really liked this guy but it still hurts that he was my first and he just randomly ignored me''
You don't think you liked the guy but lost your virginity to him?
Sounds to me that you did not stick to your plans..
''I was a virgin and was planning on saving it.''
Again...
When you do not stay true to yourself, you are more likely to have regrets, unless I'm missing something.
Also, you send a message when you casually hook up with a guy. Your behavior betrays your own words and are full of contradictions.
As to why he might have done this, it sounds like a case of him just wanting sex, or increasing his body count and then moving on.
Be mindful of the message you send to men through your actions. Discernment, sacrifice, commitment, and boundaries are what will allow you to be true to yourself.
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It was just a relationship that worked out for short time.
Its good that u are not that attached emotionally, or girls just go crazy about the guy who took their virginity.
The next time he approaches dont have sex with him, coz he will do the same again.
Dont interact or react to any of his actions or approach.
Sooner or later u might feel u wanna be wid smeone, so the Best Way to move on is to Be with another guy.
So try approaching guys u like.
Move On by being With another guy.
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I bet you anything he had just wanted sex and maybe could tell that you were falling for him if you were. He had probably would still talk for a couple days after to make sure that you were missing a period or something. Sorry that happened :(
He might have been interested then had a change of heart, he could just be an ass! Either way, don't worry about it and busy yourself with friends :)
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Either he met somebody who he wants to be #11, or #9 was out of town for awhile and you were filling in on a temporary assignment.
he got what he wanted and he obviously likes the chase more than the having.
He got what he wanted
Ya gave it up to early, he got what he wanted..
well u just got played, this is what teenagers do
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