He stopped talking to me after I said no sex?

[AutumnSky101]

I recently told a guy that if what he wanted was sex right now that i wouldn’t be able to give it to him now (we’ve only been talking for a few weeks). He ghosted me for a day, but came back a day later saying that he didn’t want a relationship and he wants to focus on school (this is the first time that he has told me this). After he told me this, he hasn’t reached out to me at all. I’m assuming that he mainly wanted sex lol. The problem is that we are both in the same class.. today we saw each other but didn’t make any contact. It feels kinda awkward because we went from texting every day to not at all. Should I stay cordial with him or should I just mind my business and act like he doesn’t exist? Thank you

[SquidwardsmellsGOOD]

He clearly doesn’t want a relationship with you and just likes to have sex. To him you are not relationship material. If you are okay with just having sex then go for it. But don’t kid yourself. And don’t blame him and don’t blame men. You women seem to get all bitter and blame all men when you really do it to yourselves. The signs are all here that he clearly doesn’t see you as relationship material

[AutumnSky101]

I definitely feel like it was cruel from him to act like he was invested in me and was genuinely interested when he wasn’t. He should have made his intentions clear from the beginning especially because i had already told him that i didn’t want sex so early. But thank you for your response.

[SquidwardsmellsGOOD]

Maybe he thought he was catching feelings so he gave it a few days to see and then realized he wasn’t. I guy wouldn’t talk to a girl if he wasn’t interested in her in the first place. He obviously just lost interest in you. It happens no need to get bitter. He wasn’t being cruel it happens to us all, we all get rejected.

[bamesjond0069]

Hey congrats! You did the right thing. Very impressive! I wish i knew you irl id date you. Hmm i think either is acceptable. If not sleeping around is an important value to you id not be too friendly with him because you know he doesn't share that value and he will wait for a moment of weakness and try again. You shouldn't be close with people who just want to use you.

[AutumnSky101]

Thank you so much. He just texted me out of the blue saying that he’s all of a sudden in a relationship now and that he never liked me in first place... even though we went on multiple dates and spent a lot of time together.

[bamesjond0069]

He sounds like a weirdo. And by hanging around people like that you will scare away men who would respect that you dont just jump in bed with guys.

[Gstacy703]

Sounds like he only wanted to hook up with you... stay away from him if that’s not what you want

[douride2]

If he quit talking to you because you said no to sex you didn't lose much of a friend.

[Rob19777]

Mind your own business and act like the piece of shit doesn't exist. Fuck him if he can't accept you saying No to sex then that's his problem. If he says anything out of the way tell him to go jerk off in his parents basement. Can't stand pieces of shits like that who can't understand the concept of NO

[0oGreyo0]

He did tasks no for an answer he stopped dealing with her lol. Why are u triggered

[Rob19777]

@0oGreyo0 Learn to grow some balls and act like a man instead of a little shit for brains boy. Or are you still wanking it in your mom's basement to your internet porn wishing you could get pussy and get laid

[Rob19777]

@AutumnSky101 he clearly doesn't respect you if he can't accept No for an answer. Tell that jerkoff to grow up and start acting like a man if he approaches you and tell him to learn how to respect a ladies wishes

[0oGreyo0]

Why are you objectify women for same thing you hate him for? Lol, the irony? Cause you can't get pussy. good luck all that white knight stuff.
Good bless you or what ever

[Rob19777]

@0oGreyo0 Go fuck yourself you sick mgtow bastard.

[0oGreyo0]

Lol i love this guy

[Rob19777]

@0oGreyo0 She did NOTHING wrong shit for brains. She has morals and values that's why I'm standing up for her. But a piece of shit like you wouldn't understand that cause you're to busy indulging on the very hate you spew

[Rob19777]

@0oGreyo0 I'm done wasting my words on a lowlife piece of shit like yourself. People like you are a lost cause all filled with hate and nothing positive to say. She stood up for what she believes and she did the right thing and if you can't accept that then you're no better than the piece of shit she rejected.

[AutumnSky101]

Thank you so much. He just texted me out of the blue and said that he all of a sudden has a girlfriend now and that he never even liked me, even though we went on dates and spent a lot of time together lol.

[Rob19777]

@AutumnSky101 Fuck him tell that piece of shit to go fuck himself

[goaded]

Your opinion is probably correct, and he's looking for someone who does want to have sex with him. Now he's looking elsewhere, and you're not an option for him.

On the plus side, if you decide you want him, you can probably have him.

[WalterRadio]

He isn't being clear with you, but he has decided you are not worth his time. There are plenty of other women that do not have such a hang up.

[Enpassant]

Ignore him, you are better off without someone just wanting you for sex.

[automatic812]

Think you should ignore him and know it's perfectly normal to not want to be his sexual conquest! Good for you!

[sejla]

Like he doesn't exist.

[Somethingwittty]

Be cordial. No love lost if there was just a couple conversations

[Wheelindealin1]

Just wait... if its awkward already, dont do it. Think it through. See when you will feel comfortable and then go for it. At 19 dont worry, there will be lots more opportunities for classmate sex. And if he really wants it, he'll come back around

[0oGreyo0]

Haha yes, i got @Rob19777 to block me. Life goal achieved. God, i love crazy people

[CheshireLokiison]

I do the same thing all the time. It’s time to put out or get out otherwise what value do you add?

[MzAsh]

Yep. You did the right thing. On to better.

[alance99]

You should ignore him

[outside_Toronto]

Mind your business and act like he doesn't exist

[Shihab-91]

good he just wanted sex

[utkarsh_18]

Just mind your own business. He was just for sex.