Hi everyone,
So there's this guy I was dating and we got along SO well. He told his friends in another language ( I'm a foreigner who he thought doesn't speak the home language ( I do hehe)) how much he liked me and that for him this isn't just about sex, he slept over and I refused sex.
I texted him later telling him the reason but he never responded and we haven't spoken since.. at all.. he won't even say hi to me when I see him out? He looks the other way until he thinks I can't see him where ill see him look at me. His friends still invited me to eat with them and its not like we were official but what the hell happened? How do you go from telling people all this, your friends how much you like a girl, to completely ignoring her and acting like she's invisible even when your brother is talking to her right in front of you?
This guy is really complicated and grew up on the streets whereas I've had a really nice life and am a model and benefit from a lot of luck. He's dealt with really dark things, has mental issues , been to a pshyciatric hospital and I don't know how to relate or what the hell set him off to stop talking to me.. On his facebook he posts about how he hates love from years ago and he never is in real relationships.
I keep thinking he was just using me for sex.. but the last night I saw him was the most magical night of my life and the way he looked at me, and him telling all his friends he likes me a lot.. I don't get it. Everytime we were together guys would come up and tell him how lucky he was to have me, even a girl I didn't know said that once, and he said if I need any more proof I'm a princess there it is.. then he just disappears and never speaks to me again.. what the hell people.. its too late now I'm just wondering if anybody has any idea
Any insight?
So there's this guy I was dating and we got along SO well. He told his friends in another language ( I'm a foreigner who he thought doesn't speak the home language ( I do hehe)) how much he liked me and that for him this isn't just about sex, he slept over and I refused sex.
I texted him later telling him the reason but he never responded and we haven't spoken since.. at all.. he won't even say hi to me when I see him out? He looks the other way until he thinks I can't see him where ill see him look at me. His friends still invited me to eat with them and its not like we were official but what the hell happened? How do you go from telling people all this, your friends how much you like a girl, to completely ignoring her and acting like she's invisible even when your brother is talking to her right in front of you?
This guy is really complicated and grew up on the streets whereas I've had a really nice life and am a model and benefit from a lot of luck. He's dealt with really dark things, has mental issues , been to a pshyciatric hospital and I don't know how to relate or what the hell set him off to stop talking to me.. On his facebook he posts about how he hates love from years ago and he never is in real relationships.
I keep thinking he was just using me for sex.. but the last night I saw him was the most magical night of my life and the way he looked at me, and him telling all his friends he likes me a lot.. I don't get it. Everytime we were together guys would come up and tell him how lucky he was to have me, even a girl I didn't know said that once, and he said if I need any more proof I'm a princess there it is.. then he just disappears and never speaks to me again.. what the hell people.. its too late now I'm just wondering if anybody has any idea
Any insight?
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