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I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years. We've had our ups and downs like most couples however when we argue, everything escalates and becomes such a massive problem that we nearly break up every time we do argue.

It happened the other day when him saying that it's a shame he can't get anything from just looking at a girl on the street. He had been looking in her direction and it brought up a lot of bad memories such as when he went on dating websites.

He then continued to shout at me and pressure me to talk back when i was trying to calm myself down. We don't live together, so he continued so much that i was in tears on the way home on the train.

He then later refused to answer my calls, saying how hurt and upset he is. Yet he won't explain how. He threatened to break up with me if i turned up at his house. Calling me names and then he was saying that i contributed to him cutting himself a couple of months ago. I know it wasn't my fault. But i feel like he's constantly shifting the blame for everything onto me. He refuses to talk through things with me and says i don't want to talk about it and just completely ignores me for days when it's something i didn't even start.

I think i've just reached my breaking point with how he behaves every time we argue. I'm the complete opposite and need to talk things out to fix them, i make so much effort to be calm with him and he just continued to shout at me via texts because he won't pick up my calls. All of this happened yesterday and now i'm not sure if i should contact him.

I'm not even entirely sure what to do anymore, I want to stay with him because i love him. But at the same time he acts like a child. He refuses to live with me yet strings me along by wondering what our kids will look like?

Should i try and contact him to fix things, or should i wait it out and let him break the silence first, even though i told him to never contact me again

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 year. Living together for almost three!
Very early on in our relationship he cheated on my when he was very drunk. It took a while but we worked through it. A month ago I looked at his snap chat top friends for fun and it was a random girl. When I asked him about it, he said it was a random girl who added him. As I had her snap chat name I sent her a message and she said they met through a video chat website called omegle. When I asked him about this he admitted he lied and he had met her on omegle. But he said he only went on there twice. I was told omegle can be really sexual but he assured me it wasn't. He was just looking for someone to talk to as he has a lot of time home alone.
Yesterday when I was using his computer to look something up, under recently visited it had a couple of webcam websites. I had a better look and there was 2 webcam sites and several p*rn websites (from what I could see, im not very good with computers). The p*rn doesn't bother me. However the webcam sites do. I see them as being more personal as you can chat to them. When I asked him about it he said he doent chat to them so its the same as p*rn.
However due to his past I don't feel like I should be letting him away with this. After I found out about the girl he had been chatting to I told him it was his last chance and if he did anything again it was over! And Im not sure if this is bad enough to end it, but I don't want to be a push over.
We have a really good relationship. We hardly fight and if we do its about doing dishes or something silly. We have a lot of fun and he is like my best friend. We have a really good sex life. We are also planning on going overseas for a couple years next year. He is younger then me and I have talked with him about how I worry he isn't ready for such a serious relationship but he assures me he is.
I don't know what to do.
Any advice and ideas are welcome!!!