Search Results: scared of affection

Will you get bored too?

This question has been a huge problem in my dating life.. i have the drive in early relation.. interest, affection , caring.. its all there but then i just get bored? Like one day i get up and start noticing everything...

Rine_Nin

Xper 4 Age: 29

How can I keep up the relationship with my sister?

The relationship with my elder sister became especially ambivalent when she was 13-15 years old and I was 10-12 years old. At that time, I was relatively short for my age, and unsatisfied with that. She was much stronger...

gardener991f

Xper 4 Age: 30

Guys, I (20F) asked my boyfriend (18M) a hypothetical question and now im not sure if I can depend on him?

We both hit it off right at the get-go. It was great at the start then the infatuation wore off and we got into fights. I'm his first love and i cherish him deeply. We had one really bad fight. I'm happy about it. It...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Stuck in a situationship, what should I do?

Excuse my choppy sentences, i'm trying to keep it short since i tend to go on a tangent. Friends with benefits, been about a month. Timing isn't right for a relationship, he has mentioned wanting a relationship...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Real Life Lessons I learned from childhood Fairy Tales!

How old were you when you first remember a fairy tale that was read to you? Did the fable make any long lasting impression on you? Were you fascinated by it? ...did it bring pleasant dreams and memories? ...or did "The...

laurieluvsit

Master Age: 31

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Guy (M25) has a crush on me (F27), says he loves me and shows it, treats me amazing in ways I didn't even ask for, but also has a girlfriend (F20)?

I'm really confused and not knowing how to approach him. I don't want to scare him off by pushing things, but at the same time I need things to be more clear. Met him on a dating app in May/June (can't recall), share...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why did he suddenly vanish? Why do guys just disappear without an explanation? Why entertain something emotional with someone, and then ghost?

Me and this guy haven't been talking long about 2ish weeks, he took me out for my birthday we had a nice simple date we talked a lot had a great connection he was affectionate then already. we talked all day every day...

cupidsbrokenarrow

Xper 3 Age: 31

Dating with autism from a girl's perspective

Disclaimer: I was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome when I was eight years old and have been in therapy ever since. This myTake is an extension to @Lynx122 's myTake from 15 days ago: Dating with autism is not fun! I...

Anonymous

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Is my mom overbearing?

When I was younger my mother was very stern to me. She gave my older sister everything she wanted and always told me that I was not as good in comparison to my older sibling. I got more punishments, spankings, and etc. I...

Aiasis

Xper 6 Age: 32

Society & Politics

Debunking “sovieboo” romanticization of the Soviet Union

Totalitarian regimes come and go. Some last more than others. But one of these regimes managed to last almost a century. This regime was the Soviet Union, the world’s first communist state. Just like many other...

ADFSDF1996

Influencer Age: 30

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Guy's Behavior

How do I stop my boyfriend from finding out my darkest secrets?

My boyfriend is very honest, trusting and ture to himself. I love him so much more than he'd ever know, he's changed my life completely and made me feel so loved and safe that's all I've ever wanted from a man. I'm so...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is there such thing as too loving for him?

So I have been dating this guy for a while almost 3 months and recently he said that I love him too much and he was scared of how I love him. I just want him to be happy with me so I give him all my love and affection. Am...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I really wanna get out of my house but I can't. im not going to my dads either. what do I do?

okay so my mum literally refuses to buy me anything. i have NO trousers and i asked her if she could buy me a pair today and she had a massive go at me and she was like "oh why dont you get a job and buy some yourself?"...

emeryyyyyyy

Xper 2 Age: 21

He doesn't want to kiss me?

My boyfriend barely kisses me. He told me he doesn't want to have sex anymore because he's scared to get me pregnant and he feels its wrong to do before marriage. I feel like I have to beg for him to show me affection,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, as a guy who was physically and mentally abused in whole life and never had a relationship should I tell my potential partner about my past?

Abused by parents , bullied by friends , judged by guys , girls about being a virgin. It’s very hard for me to trust people. Love , affection are actually scaring to me , like someone trying to play me.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Abused by parents , bullied by friends , judged by guys , girls about being a virgin. It’s very hard for me to trust people. Love , affection are actually scaring to me , like

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To marry or break up: A decision I can't decide! Part 2

If you haven't read Part 1 of this story, you can view it in the link below. If you already have, feel free to skip on ahead: To marry or break up: A decision I can't decide! The "Talk" I have taken the advice of many on...

Aysen

Influencer Age: 34

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Why am I scared of commitment in a relationship?

I love thinking about dating and cuddling and affection, but when it comes to real life, I get shy and scared with them. I’ve only been in one relationship and that was when he was trying to get with me! How do I become...

keshainlove

Xper 5 Age: 21

How to be more open about feelings?

There's this guy I started liking, but everything feels really intense. I've never experienced liking on this level before and it makes me feel really scared. Partly because someone really hurt me before. I'm lowkey...

Anonymous

(25-29)