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Of course I don’t judge all women for being the same. I don’t appreciate it when radical feminists throw all me men under the bus so I try to avoid overreaching labels.

The greatest minority is the individual. I’m a complex person and I can be often be argumentative. Not because I enjoy arguing I actually hate unnecessary conflict and drama. But at the end of the day I just want the best for everyone. I want the truth.

Unfortunately I am seeing more and more females on here who have this attitude that “they want to have their cake and eat it too”. I’ll call them out on it. I don’t care if someone’s emotions makes them “feel” like that bs is okay. I care about WHAT is right vs. BEING right. However I do want to commend a few women who have been exceptionally insightful and can provide good advice. It might not be always what i want to hear but I can tell they really are trying to give me the best advice.

But at the end of the day I will never know what’s really like to be a woman or vice versa. I am aware of my ignorance when it comes to that. It’s tough though. I have to constantly remind myself that women generally don’t think way men do. Our very brains are structured differently.

However I have been on and off GAG for 10 years now. From what I’ve seen women are generally getting worse on here and I know why: modern feminism. That’s not to say I haven’t met a few really awesome women out there. There have even been a few isolated incidents where I met a misguided yet well intentioned woman who identified as a “feminist”. They truly want to know what equality means. Unfortunately that label might of been accurate for these particular women in the 70s but definitely not today.

Anyway I admittedly come here to vent. Every once in a blue moon I do get good advice. But we are all just normal people not a bunch of well trained therapists. I think this website does more harm than good when it comes to my outlook on western women.

This just crossed my mind the other day ans thought I’d ask about it. To any couples here, what would your reaction be if the couples therapist you’ve been seeing asks to observe you and your partner’s lovemaking as a part of the therapy? A lot of couples therapists will ask couples about their sex life, but what if one actually wants to see your sex life in action so that they can take notes on what they see and take that into account when counseling you and your partner? I guess this would happen either at their office on a rollaway bed/air mattress or at your house, whichever you would be more comfortable with. This is all a hypothetical and not something that has happened to me, but what would your reaction be in this situation?