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- Attraction is mostly emotional for a woman as long as she is open to dating in the first place and the guy doesn’t have huge initial red flags.
- She has to feel safe and comfortable around the guy to want to date him. A guy triggers this initially by making her laugh and relaxing her and then by being confident and internally strong.
- It takes time for her to fall in love with him. She has to go away and have space - Do I like him? How do I feel when with him? How do I feel when not with him?
- Having the confidence to communicate interest is also necessary. If a guy fixates on 1 girl and starts subtly chasing her without communicating interest confidently and clearly for weeks or months, it will kill any attraction as she wonders why you’re not making a move even though she can sense the guy likes her and she’ll assume you’re not interested or not confident enough to make a move.
- Girls are constantly subconsciously judging and testing even guy friends. He has to remain internally strong and masculine and continue to make her laugh.
- Attraction in girls can also fluctuate depending on circumstances but guys should remain confident and secure.
- Guys should be their own person and let girls chase him. And take the lead when with her.