Stop driving yourself crazy if you're not loved back genuinely !

[Elsa143]

It often looks like they're "just there" for the sake of it. They're half ass there or simply invisible most of the times!

It can be friendship, relationship, a crush leading you on or a major issue with family.

Your love, efforts, concerns and affection are not reciprocated but in return your pure emotions are being dismissed or you're simply being shamed for demanding back your affections!

Trust me, they're not meant to be no matter what you think about them!

Firstly, it's not your fault!

1. It's NOT about you or your self worth but it's about their inability to love or care!

• You can't expect to find a good amount of gold in random carpenter stores!

2. It's their problem, stop blaming yourself for being too emotional or vulnerable.

• They're selfish and only approach you whenever they need something from you or when they're 'just bored'.

Secondly, that's why you should leave them forever..

3. They disrespect you and lack empathy

• Lying, gaslighting, making you feel guilty when you point out their mistake, never feeling sorry, always criticizing and comparing you no matter what you do.
• This mytake is also applicable to a toxic family member. They're no less than your enemies.

4. You will start having 'issues'

• Trust issues, losing the ability to love, stop opening up at all and hatred for humans in general.
• Mental or emotional scars might make you borderline abusive and being over demanding with your future spouse.
• This looks harsh but in reality , it is due to insecurity and fear of abandonment.
• That's why you end up 'Testing' your partner to see that if their love 'matches' with how much you love them!

So PLEASE WALK AWAY!!

Don't let a bunch of trash make you blind to recognize real petals!

Please resist the temptation to put out that negativity on your future partner.

Yes occasional temper tantrums and playfully testing their true love secretly is much better to see if they genuinely love you.

But there's no need to be violent if they disappoint you in a certain way.

Your anger and wrath is valid if they repeat same patterns like previous toxic people did.

"Don't get even with toxic partner by abusing them, simply walk away because they aren't worth it. The right one won't see that side of yours because their genuine love will kill your inner demon"

Have a high quality and toxic free life and don't get spoiled because of trashy close ones :) Be you and keep loving! Xoxo <3

[20yearsolder]

Nicely said