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My boyfriend and I have had this reoccurring fights about how I sometimes let the small issues get to me easily. Issues meaning little things that he does that make me upset or a little annoyed.

He believes that patience and choosing not to have small things bother you, is the right way to handle smaller issues. So about 3months ago, we decided to try it his way. See if I can handle not getting upset over small issues. But it didn't go so well and we got into a huge fight.
I think that communication is important. If one person has something that bothers the other, they should come clean about it instead of letting it build up. It's a way to better understand one another. It's a way for two people in a partnership to come together. But my boyfriend says, communicating isn't who he is, and that's not the way he wants a relationship to go...
He needs to understand what ticks me off, but he is choosing to ignore the core problem and is telling me that I have a choice of being happy with him and I have a choice of not letting the small things get to me...
We are now on a month long break. He thinks that I'm wrong about communicating and doesn't think he should change anything. He doesn't understand why I'm mad and that I am to blame for for all the fights we've had...
He wasn't always like this... He was kind and caring when we first started dating... This was also around the time he started at his new job. He has been stressed about a lot of things...

Should I keep going at this relationship and try to resolve the problems when he doesn't even want to acknowledge them... Maybe he'll come around after this month...
I honestly don't know what to do... please help...

I've been in a relationship with a man for 2.5 years. I recently became aware this man has lied to me, cheated on me different women behind my back, throught the entire relationship, one after another, even with his son's mother, even though she's in relationship with another man herself. I became aware of all of this after I lost my job 2 months ago. And he even gives his son's mother extra money beyond $250.00 weekly child support, for personal expenses, so she won't threaten to take him to court, for child support, for the full amount that she can get, based on his income.

Although I enjoy his company and and us traveling and spending time together, I dont see the relationship going anywhere. The only reason why Im still with him, is because he financially supports me, while Im in between jobs. Once my finances improve to a point that I dont need anything from him anymore, Im leaving him.

Am I wrong for feeling a certain way about my boyfriend giving his son's mother money for personal stuff, while he's in a relationship with me and she's in a relationship as well? And would I be wrong to wait until my finances improve and stable, to break up with him?