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Poor communication in early stages. Advice?
Hi all, Dating this guy for a little over 3 months, became exclusive (though not official, his words) a few weeks ago. Treats me like a queen when we're together. Conversation is easy, he's attentive, gentlemanly, and...
Galian84
Xper 5 Age: 41 COMPLICATED FIRST LOVE?
So I’ve known this guy since middle school and I started liking him in the 8th grade. I left the school for ninth grade and came back in tenth. Then in tenth I liked him AGAIN and told some friends and one of my guy...
Anonymous
(18-24) DID I MEET MY SOULMATE AT 14?
So I’ve known this guy since middle school and I started liking him in the 8th grade. I left the school for ninth grade and came back in tenth. Then in tenth I liked him AGAIN this time I told some friends and one of my...
Anonymous
(18-24) Signs your girl is being unfaithful
Yes it is Valentine's Day today and it is supposed to be about love struck lovers not scorned/unfaithful ones. But we gotta remove our rose colored petal glasses off to see the harsh reality, your girl is not in love with...
Lonely and looking for some encouragement?
I have been hurt and rejected a lot over my lifetime. Family, friends and lovers. I have had some passionately in love with me, but because I fell on hard times, their love left me. It hurts me so much. I know there is...
CarlZane
Xper 4 Age: 49 How do you be "Friends First" if guys like you before they even give friendship a chance?
I wanted a relationship wherein me and my guy would be friends first so we can get a chance to know each other without being clouded by being lovers. I learned my lesson the hard way that many guys put up their best face...
Anonymous
(25-29) Would you date someone who still keeps in contact with their ex-lovers?
I recently broke things off with this guy because he's still "friends" with ex-friends with benefits and other girls he used to date.
Ninakaran
Xper 4 Age: 29 Do you guys have any online dating success stories?
I'm black and my husband is white. We met on POF. I was 25 and he was 32 at the time. We started out messaging and texting for a few months, then eventually we decided to go on a date. The first time we met was a friendly...
Anonymous
(36-45) No She Didn't Put You in the Friendzone, You Put Yourself There
You finally worked up the courage to confess your feelings to your crush. Maybe you've known her for a short time, maybe you've known her for years, maybe you've even seen her go through a relationship or two, but...
capncool
Explorer Age: 34 Which do you concentrate and focus your mental energies on most, the possibilities of your future or terrible mistakes of your past?
I often sit quietly listening to loved ones and friends alike, voicing their concerns about long past events, relationships and former lovers. Unbeknownst to them, they seem unable to release missed professional and...
GreyEyedGuy12
Xper 4 Age: 32 Whats the best way to deal with an ADHD friend/lover?
Yea i like him, he likes me. But this mf is 10 times more hyper than me. He refuses to take meds and i dont blame him but he kinda needs it 🙈 he's only been gettin like an hour of sleep a night. He just keeps laughing...
Romance: Are you a very romantic, sensual person, or no?
I find myself being either in the middle, but leaning towards a non-romantic personality. My parents were not together since I was young and my mother and I are not overly touchy-feely. My family is definitely more...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I a bad person for this?
I’ve managed to brainwash myself to the point where I can’t feel love. Well at least I can for my family but not anyone else as lovers. But I have a large social circle of female friends and two of them are in love with...
Anonymous
(18-24) Tupac May Not Be Inappropriate To Study In Schools...
Now, Tupac may not have been a great role model considering his lifestyle, and his behaviour, I understand that. When I tell people I like Tupac, they laugh and ask me questions such as: "are you going to be a rapper?"...
MissPeach35
Xper 5 Age: 23 Guys, What personality traits do men value in woman the most?
I would say its gentleness and strength Because if she has those two qualities she will be a good wife, a good citizen, a good mother, a good employee, a good friend, a good companion and a good romantic lover.
How do I get my boyfriend to change his views about lending money?
My boyfriend makes really good money, has a lot of savings and investments, and has two strict rules. One is that his expenses must always be less than 50% of his income, which I guess makes sense, it's how he has no...
Anonymous
(30-35) What are your personal feelings on exes that try to pop up and resurface in the happy lives of former lovers?
He knew she's been happily married the past three years with a ten month old daughter. Friend or former friend, just stay the f**k gone. There's nothing good that's going to come from trying to stir up a long dead...
GreyEyedGuy12
Xper 4 Age: 32 Just a question?
I’m 23 and he’s roughly around 24. I’ve always been on good terms with this person but my social skills suck making his interest deplete. I’ve always wanted this person in my life as a lover. Recently I got a hit me up...
Anonymous
(30-35) Two movies, two deaths, two dictators - tears and laughs
Being two big history buffs, last Sunday me and my partner a movie night with two historical movies. Two movies that despite their differences in mood and storytelling, conveying different emotions to tell the same...
Do you think smoking cigars makes a man look cooler and chic?
I had seen this trend, there are cigar aficionado magazines, there are even Cigar men´s club,. The ones who smoke cigars act or pretend they are rich and and important people and act like tycoons and there is even a cigar...
Anonymous
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