Yes it is Valentine's Day today and it is supposed to be about love struck lovers not scorned/unfaithful ones. But we gotta remove our rose colored petal glasses off to see the harsh reality, your girl is not in love with you anymore but with someone else... Here are some signs your girl is being unfaithful to you:
1. You feel it in your gut. Something is amiss and you can’t just point out what it is.
2. She is always AWOL. You never seem to know where she is most of the time. She never tells you where she goes or her plans that day. She just goes AWOL.
3. She is spending most of her time out without you.
4. She always makes an excuse to go out any time of day or night.
5. She is spending more time on her appearance. This could be either bad or good. Good because maybe she is trying to better herself. Bad, because she is trying to impress her new lover.
6. She has an extreme change of taste in clothes or interests, even food.
7. She has no time and patience for you. Every little thing you do annoys her.
8. She picks on you and fights with you just to get out of the house.
9. She talks of a new friend in her life out of the blue. She can’t stop talking about him either.
10. She takes on new interests that her new friend likes.
11. She works longer hours more than she normally does.
12. She withdraws away from you when you try to be intimate with her. She seems distant and very cold to the touch.
13. When you are together, she acts like she is bored and shows no joy being with you.
14. She rejects your advances when she used to welcome you with open arms.
15. She acts more disappointed/sad when you try to be romantic/surprise her.
16. She smells different. She has a signature smell that you love and now she’s wearing something you don’t recognize.
17. She wears clothes that you didn’t buy or never seen before.
18. She turns the tables on you every time you confront her about her being indifferent towards you.
19. She talks about the future without you in it.
20. She wrinkles her nose in disgust when you try to be cute for her. Things that used to be cute to her.
21. She stops wearing jewelry/ring you got her that she used to wear all the time.
22. She doesn’t tell you about work events involving bringing their partner.
23. She is not as invested into your we time as before. If your favorite show is on, she doesn’t care to watch it with you and rather go do something else.
24. She gets private phone calls and texts throughout the day and night. If she has to take the call, she’s whispering or giggling and will take the call out of earshot.
25. Her friends act different around you. They used to adore you. Now they act like you did something unholy to their friend or they act awkward around you.
26. Her face brightens up when she receives a text from someone you don’t know about.
27. She has taken down your picture together as her profile picture and her relationship status hidden.
28. She calls you from home to check up on you and what time you coming home so she can bring her new man home.
29. When you start becoming suspicious, she starts accusing you of being the unfaithful one.
30. She doesn’t want to make love with you anymore.
31. She doesn’t like being kissed on her lips anymore by you.
32. She sleeps on the far side of the bed and puts a pillow in between.
33. She asks you for space and tells you she needs more me time.
34. She questions your faithfulness to her.
35. She will break up with you to be with this other guy.
Before you do jump into conclusions if she is exhibiting most of these signs, it is always best to confront her and talk to her about it. If she is or she isn't. Whatever the outcome is, you have to decide if the relationship is even worth staying or worth fighting for or worth leaving for. Just don't be played for a fool. Like the saying goes "Love is blind". It truly is... Although everything is right under your nose or your very eyes, we try to look past it because we love the person. But is it worth it?
Thanks for the time reading, lovers.