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I dated this girl for about 5 months. She told me she loved me like crazy and bought me gifts and what not. I was unsure. She poured on the affection. Then I started liking her a lot and did a bunch of insecure things and she started backing off. I chase... and blah blah blah screwed it up. it all started when I spent too much money on her for her birthday. She also has a child and lives an hour from me. She almost got fired at work and her boss told her he thinks I'm a distraction. She's also been separated for 4 years and the divorce is... well today actually. I could tell her attraction had fallen way down and she eventually broke it off with me about 4 days ago. I'm 33 and this is first person I've ever dated that I have felt is just like me. I don't want to be her friend, but her lover and friend. We haven't agreed to no contact but I told her she knows where I stand and she should get in touch with me if she's interested. As I think about all of the mistakes I made during the relationship, I also tend to think about how stubborn she and I are. I mean she bought me a I love you more than Ice cream. I've NEVER been this way about a woman... which tells me I should try to get her back. I dated a woman for 8 years and never felt like this. I'm worried that maybe she does want to communicate with me but is being stubborn. I also really don't want to eff this up. Any words would be appreciated. I also know that her friends like me. How crazy would it be if I asked her friends for advice. Also asking that they can tell her that I reached out to them, but if they ever thought I was great for her to wait a while so that I could have a chance. We haven't contacted each other since that night. She did contact me on the way home saying things like she's sorry blah blah blah via text. I made myself too available. I never cheated. I got complacent. I got combative (because i didn't realize she was testing me) I've initiated no Contact. There's got to be away to fix this.

What i realize is that a lot of men get into fruitless relationships. the problem for men a lot of times is in fact not the time spent with the person but the money they put out. while girls can be undisided and are allowed to change their mind the money and time makes it a lot harder for men. Plus the only time women or men in some cases spend money on the other person is if the already want to be with them; in other words they have already made up their minds about the relationship ( not really dating). this loss puts men behide finacially and cripples the male sex. Moving on from relationships and trying to be finacial stable is therefore a lot harder for men. wemon often act like the bad habbits we have as men are because of are sex when infact it is because they things we do to accommodate them. But they are far from relizing that and carring. rather then put up with the crap and hope they change think we should do something to protect/ preserve ourselves So i am proposing an idea for a bill. This bill (insert clever name) will be disgned so that the government gives men a tax write off for the money they spend on dates so that men can recover finacially; since they won't legalize prostitution.

Now for this to work there of course has to be guide lines or rules. otherwise anyone can try to get this write off dishonestly. I came up with a few

-proof of expenses will be covered with proof of purchases or receipts

-all legitimate proof of purchases must come from the same year they file their taxes

-pictures of the women they dated can be used as proof-iffy on this one

- expenses must exceed five hundred dollars.

- money spent on her looks and health count as well.

If anyone can think of any more post them in the comments

also i am including a poll so that i can include one because the messege keeps coming up and saying the post is either to long or short. What the heck is wrong with this thing. its a bug they need to fix. what the hell is wrong with this thi