Search Results: is my confidence hurting me

In the closet or hurt by women?

Trying to understand what's going on with my crush before I show him how I feel. In middle school, he dated a little, nothing serious, just crushes on girls. When he was 14, he wasn't ready to date for real, but his uncle...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he in the closet?

When he was in middle school, he dated a little, nothing serious, just crushes on girls. When he was 14, he wasn't ready to date for real, but his uncle tried to force him to "be a man" and ask out strangers. When he was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do my crush's odd dating behaviors add up?

My crush has odd behavior when it comes to dating, and Im trying to understand why. There are a few explanations that only make sense when combined with each other, but I fear that it doesn't make sense after all. Can a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Are guys like me unloveable and lost causes?

I feel like I'm unloveable, I am very shy, introverted, quiet and unassuming. I have a hardened exterior but deep down I have a lack of confidence, I am scared of being vulnerable due to being hurt in the past and I am...

Hitthecenter

Xper 2 Age: 38

How Do I Look?

Guys, How would you describe this booty (UPDATED PIC)?

The story of my butt: I use to have a really big butt. People would tell me that i look like 2008 Kim K from the back. It was the root of my physical confidence, but since i became vegetarian (im guessing the lack of...

DuriGem

Xper 4 Age: 30

Does he dislike me? My crush?

Well, my crush and I are of the same age and recently I've been getting mixed signals. Like everywhere. He's a generally confident and rather out-spoken guy, talks to most people and is quite nice. Sometimes (But not...

ThatRaccoonGirl

Xper 5 Age: 26

How Do I Look?

Guys, How would you describe this booty?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Why is this girl I like giving me mixed signals?

This girl liked me and waited a long time for me to make a move (like almost a year). She gave me all the signs like blushing whenever I was around and talking to her, staring at me from afar, waving, being really shy,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is my crush acting like this?

Flash1

Xper 2 Age: 34

How to Avoid Bad Women: What Every Man NEEDS to Know!

There are bad women in the world. Plain and simple. While I have done a fair share of growing up this past month after recent events , I have also learned that women cannot be placed up on a pedestal anymore. Make no...

JRICHARDS1996

Editor Age: 30

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Family & Friends

How did you recover from bullying?

I was bullied severely starting in middle school, continuing through high school, and into college. I am now 22 years old and am extremely shy and scared when meeting new people because there seems to be something about...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Education & Career

The Importance Of Choosing A Study You Actually Like

When I turned 18, I graduated high school and it was my turn to pick a study. I wasn't really sure what to pick and I was overwhelmed with the amount of choices. I tried checking out all sorts of studies until I finally...

HenkTheTank

Xper 5 Age: 30

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I've never had a girlfriend and it is really getting to me mentally, how do I deal with this feeling of loneliness and valueless?

All my life I've never had a girlfriend up to my age now at 26 years old. I've been told I'm handsome, attractive, and seem to be a decent person. Yet despite this no girl seems to be interested in me or who I am as a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why Loving Yourself Leads to Loneliness Instead of Love and Marriage

I've been single my entire life. You know those people who are always in relationships? I'm the complete opposite. My longest relationship was 3 years, but those last 2 years were on-and-off (mostly off) and based on sex....

aamina_m

Xper 6 Age: 42

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6 Reasons Why Starting a Relationship is So Damn Hard

Ladies and gentlemen, I have been reading a lot of stuff on here that really just irks me. There are women pointing out what men are doing wrong when they try to start a relationship, and men bashing the women that don't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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I'm at a low-point in my life, and my girlfriend doesn't seem to care as much?

So a few weeks ago, my girlfriend turned 18.. and during these past few weeks as well, I've been very hard on myself. (Lack of confidence, no motivation, sadness etc..) My girlfriend has left me while we were hanging...

iJTown

Xper 3 Age: 29

Did he ask me out because of the bet? or because it was me?

So this guy (I've lowkey liked for years but never really talked to) asked me out last week. We'd been joking around and he was fake complaining that his friends told him he didn't have any game and then he asked me to go...

Softballnerd23

Xper 5 Age: 27

Family & Friends

My mom sees me as a failure Advice?

My mom is always trying to compare me to other people's children and it seriously pisses me the fuck off because you can not compare me to someone else and she does not understand that. I know that she wants the best for...

Opheliapa

Xper 6 Age: 32