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So me and my ex boyfriend have been together for 1year. We have both always been there for each other - doctors appointments, his surgery, he also helped me lose weight and get my drivers license. Occasionally we were having small stupid disagreements like about what I should wear, drama with his friends- he has always kept our relationship private. He was also in jail for 3 months. he was talking to me everyday saying how much he loves me and misses me and was talking to me about future plans. i was also visiting his parents house and him in jail. he knows I’m loyal to him and would never cheat on him.
Now as soon as he came out of jail, he began to act a bit differently: we were fighting more often (about what I should be wearing, my diet, and finances. 4 weeks ago he began talking to a mutual friend of ours whom recently broke up with her ex. I stayed home then he went out. So I was online after and suddenly this female tells me that she’s on a date with my man. I freaked out and was phoning her and my boyfriend then he separated with me cuz of that, yet he still has me staying over at his house cuz he wants to potentially fix things between us. He also tells me that he’s using her to show her off to our group of friends cuz he doesn’t want people to suspect that me and him were/are ever together cuz he was away for 3 months. Yet he talks to her everyday and is having sex with her and stays overnight with her on weeeknds... and he's with me during the week... he also says he doesn’t have those kinds of feelings for her and that she’s too tall for him. Now he also tells me that he prefers her in the sense that she listens to his fashion advice whereas I don’t always and she also cools him off when he’s hot whereas I don’t... he says it hurts him how someone whom he's not in love with does these things and I the girl he loves me, doesn’t... he also tells me that he would end things sooner than later with her if I show him improovements and be a “good girl”

Is it a good looking guy wearing tight pants?
Is it a guy with wavy hair the color you like best?
Is it his eyes that send quivers down your spine?
Is it just his personality that turns you on the most?
His height, his abs, his smile, tattoos, body piercings... what is it that makes you say... OMG! IS THAT GUY HOT OR WHAT?

Also, what do you do about it, if anything? Do you approach him in some way?

I was in a car full of girls, with one of my sisters and 3 of our friends and we drove next to another car with a couple of hot guys in it. We rolled down our windows and gave some cat calls. Saying things like "OMG" and "WOW, where are the girls that let you hunks escape?"

... Ok, I know, but they weren't a bit bothered by it I promise you. In fact we had to take a side street quickly to keep them from following us! ... l'm not kidding... lol. It was just one of those fun, crazy things to do at the spur of the moment... lol

Like maybe in another scenario you are with a group of girlfriends and you see a hot looking guy who knows how to dress stylish and has a confident looking demeanor? What would you do then, just admire him? ... or would you secretly wish you had the courage to say something to him or get his attention in some way?

Does thinking and talking about hot guys effect you in a positive or a negative way?

Share your thoughts on this "hot topic" ... lol... PLEASE?