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By perfect I mean:

- Has a perfect balance of sweetness and dominance.
- Cares for you and shows tough love if he has to.
- Looks after all your needs while also keeping himself maintained.
- Understands your feelings whenever you're not feeling well, can always sympathize with you and give you the help and advice you'd need.
- Shows you all his emotions and isn't afraid to expose a weakspot or two because he trusts you.
- Is always there for you while also having a stable busy life with family and friends.
- You wouldn't have to tell him most of your feelings, he'd know from your behaviour automatically and care for them.
- He'd satisfy all your needs in all the right doses, nothing to worry about there.
- He's madly in love with you and misses you all the time but is also independant and strong alone.
- Has a good stable income and good money management and life management skills.
- Has the looks of 7-10/10 and has excellent hygiene and self-care.
- Is fit and strong, self-improvement has no limit for him, all in moderation of course.
- He doesn't give his body to anyone, he's preserved and keeping it for someone.
- Is oddly sexually experienced without having much sexual experience if at all.
- Has self-control and good solid values to insure a stable future family.

The list goes on and on but you get the picture, do such guys "scare" you or seem too good to be true?

So there's this girl at my work, but we work different positions and only see each other a few times a month for 5 to 10 min.
I've had my eye on her from Day 1, but at the same time I've had the vibe that she's all business. I've been wanting to talk to her from the beginning, but she always did her job then left in such a hurry and I didn't wanna seem creepy.

We only started talking recently, mostly work related stuff, but I can tell she's starting to feel more open and comfortable with me.

She was looking forward to seeing me this month, but seemed sad when I told her we won't 'cuz of different schedules.

Anyways, she can be a bit moody, but she's jumped in to help me out and has said things like, "I hope the assholes stay away from you today." And started being really open with her feelings about other coworkers, and customers and I felt that's where we sort of connected.

One day she was radioing the maintenance people, but I wasn't sure so I picked up and she kind of raised her voice to me in a rude tone. Then a minute later she calls back and says, "Don't worry you didn't do anything wrong." Also a new guy kept fucking up after I trained him and she said, "Don't worry, it's not your fault."

I didn't think too much of it but did get the feeling that she might start liking me at least in a plutonic way.

So today, my other coworker, the only one who I'm really close with, said she caught her laughing at a text I sent her. And she told me that she said about ME, "I want him to open up to me. He finally started talking to me."

I was like, "Really? She said that?"

My coworker replied, "She just wants to get to know everyone."
But is there a chance it could be more than that?
Why was she looking forward to seeing me next month? And why was she so happy that I finally talked to her, and why does she want me to open up?

I deliberately hinted to other coworkers that I enjoy her company.

I don't know. What do you guys think?

For instance it can be from wearing revealing clothes in a supposedly formal and modest themed occasion, to wearing crocs outside the house knowing nobody likes the sight of it.

Yes i am planning of wearing crocs lol. I will probably do it. I kind of worry about some people judging the things i wear, but not too much that i avoid wearing something i might like/already like.