Search Results: give him the confidence to ask me out

So, I asked a question recently about should I give up already before it starts.

Link: https://www.girlsaskguys.com/dating/q1689174-should-i-give-up-already-before-it-starts

I basically just completely explain how my best friend has a better chance then I do without knowing I show my lack of confidence. I really do have low self esteem problem even though I stand up for myself. But, the question was based on appearance. I decide to make it about personality and I'm going to list every single personality that we both have, and some maybe surprised who's going to come up top.

First, I'm going to list "Rebecca's personality". Somewhat quiet, friendly, kind at times, can be a little bit mean, can be intimidatiing to some of her lovers, highly intelligent, cool, dedicated in cheerleading and school, and introverted/extroverted.

Second, I'm going to list my personality and not going to exaggerate. I can be a lone wolf, rarely jealous, highly intelligent, quiet at times, a pushover, can be popular for a day, dress street wise and currently, can be arrogant for a short period of time, friendly, easy to get along with, average, shy, smart mouthed, witty, and I really doing like attention drawn to me on purpose.

And finally, I'm going to list "Manny's personality". Athletic, friendly, competitive with me, confident, quiet, show off, can be a jerk towards me at times, thinking popular is the key of surviving HS, instigator, can lie, highly intelligent, fight back whenever push around, not a very easy target, can be intimidating to some, cold hearted at times, and talks a bit freaky (how he says it).

Now, who has the upperhand? Me or Manny? Explain your reasoning.