Search Results: should guys pay

What should I do about my best friend always expecting me to pay and letting her cousin use me?

We’d go to a place to smoke hookah and it costs like £20 per time after she’d want drinks etc and i’d Always pay it all then afterwards she’d expect me to buy her food. my best friend knew about this and encouraged her...

anonbrunette99

Yoda Age: 26

First dates? What do you think they should be like? What have been a favourite first date for you? What would your dream first date be?

There is a lot of debates about who pays on a first date, but what about dates that people dont pay? Is dinner dates traditional? Are they still the most common? What would you want to do on a first date? What would be a...

BusyLizzie321

Xper 4 Age: 29

Feeling some resentment towards my father becuase he makes no money?

My mother and father are separated. I live with my mother in a different country than him, but I visit him in summer and he comes to my country in winter. I’m 19 now, and I’ve noticed that every year he’s getting poorer...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

A guy said he’d pay me for my underwear?

A guy on my snap always messages me and for the most part I give him short replies. But today he messaged me and said if he could ask a serious question without seeming creepy. I said yeah and he asked how much I’d be...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you ever feel like you were born in the wrong generation?

I feel like i was born later in time than i should've been. Like, my moral compass and general demeanor and attitude towards women seems more like something you'd expect from a guy born in the 1950's. I always try to be...

Ratmuffin

Xper 5 Age: 39

Girl's Behavior

Should a guy stay away from party girls?

I meet most women online and I'm 30 years old, so I would expect that a girl between 25-30 years old would be past that stage. The last few girls I've met have wanted me to go out drinking to the bar with them or go out...

red324

Guru Age: 37

Girls, if you're living with a guy and have a job, would you help pay the bills?

I was hanging out with some friends and one of the women in the group said she was disgusted with men she's dated because they said she should help pay for things too since she has a job. If it's a date, I'd be willing to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How should I help my big sister with the possibly that she may dump her boyfriend?

It all started at my work Christmas party ladt year. My big sister had a massive crush on one of my co workers and i could tell he was interested to and he was s nice guy so i helped set them up by getting her to come out...

Alice2398

Guru Age: 28

Do you think it's fair that women expect a short guy should do something special to be preferred among all the tall guys in dating?

To me it's like to have to pay a bigger price for the fair, very unfair in my opinion

Petra150

Xper 6 Age: 42

Entertainment & Arts

Have you ever auditioned at a drama/acting school?

Hi guys :) I always dreamed of becoming an actress, so I will audition at several acting schools (once the situation with corona has changed). I really hope I will get accepted at one of them. Has anyone of you ever...

thymari

Xper 2 Age: 27

Marriage & Weddings

Guys, does the size/design of the engagement ring matter to you?

So my boyfriend and I have been discussing marriage. He told me he wants me to pick out ring designs that I like so he can find one for me when we're ready to take that step. I asked him for his price range so I could...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My Mother Has a Victim Mentality. I Just Figured It Out

My mother is a very sweet woman. She turns 71 in a few days. I won't be able to see her for her birthday, because of the Covid quarantine, and I feel bad about that. And I didn't see her for Easter, though that one is not...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Guy's Behavior

Difficult guy and what to do?

this guy (we will call him Jim) owns the business next to my work. We have been friends for a year. he eventually treated me like a girlfriend. He would take me on dates, pay, open the car door, I met some family. I...

badblondie

Xper 5 Age: 27

Just had a thought on fathers rights and pregnancy what do you guys think?

if the pregnancy and birth is a private medical condition of the women as you say why should this man pay any money for your private medical condition and procedure when it has nothing to legally do with him as you say so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What if the government didn't have to tax the tax payer?

First of all, all opinions and ideas are welcome as long as you are peaceful and respectful to others. What if we didn't have to pay taxes for the government to bring in a revenue source? I believe that our tax system...

Ceasar97

Xper 7 Age: 28

Should my dad’s girlfriend have any business in determining how much my dad will help me with college expenses?

My dad and his girlfriend, Vicky, are totally dependent on eachother for all their decisions. I chose my college and whenever I want to talk to my dad about going there, the tuition, future plans, Vicky has to add her two...

Anonymous

(18-24)

This is a total headache I’m losing hope?

jessicarose98

Xper 4 Age: 27