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So I was a bit fat in middle school and I wasn't the prettiest girl around, at my middle school I was widely disliked by the kids because they saw me as ugly, strange and retarded. Because they were going by how I looked. And it was rumored I was on drugs and thanks to them saying that I am now banned from that school. This guy who talked to me was friendly and talked a lot to me when we first met but once he found out I was bullied and saw how no one in his age group really liked me/ said all this stuff, he started avoiding me and refused to be anywhere near me because of this. In fact he said he really didn't like me because he feared he'd be bullied too just because we went to the same place together and he knew how poorly everyone treated me. Was he wrong for how he treated me? :/

So, when I was in middle school all the kids in my class would call me ugly, disgusting, fat, try to fight me after school, dudes would ignore me, or just call me a ugly bitch. This happened almost all the time and people would glare at me and be like. Eww you look awful. ( yes and they'd say this) I started to believe I was ugly so I got braces. It was painful I didn't really want them but I knew if I didn't get them the kids at school wouldn't like me, so I got them. By 14 I wanted to get plastic surgery and cake my face with makeup for the sake of other people and not for myself. I just wanted to fit in and be liked. Despite how painful it was I did it and now I feel more liked by people, and it makes me really sad sometimes..

https://www.today.com/video/today/53971923 then there's this girl who got plastic surgery to fit in at school because the kids didn't like her either till she got a ton of surgeries.

So in middle school half of my classes were for the slower kids and since we were in special ed we were labeled the disabled kids. I was also friends with other special ed kids. But I noticed that my main friends were in these classes. We were cool at first. People said we were retarded/ ugly and people often would tell me I wouldn't amount to much. Kids at school said my friends and I smelled like human poop and one of my friends was a short fat girl who'd bully other kids. This guy told me the main reasons why people thought of me so poorly and told me I was ugly and disgusting all the time was because the people I hanged out with, the fact I'm in special ed classes and how I rarely did anything when people called me and my friends ugly and strange. We were sort of like the outcasts of the school. It was hard to make friends and keep friends because they'd always avoid us or only talk to us during passing period. So that made us sort of bond but they turned on me once I was taken out of the special ed classes. :/

Look at these two girls, let's say they're going to the same high school. Which girl do you think will make the most friends and will be treated better by girls and guys at school? I know this sounds strange but I noticed that girls who are viewed as ugly or fat get bullied more. Example kids were often very mean to me and my friend and called us ugly or hideous all the time. She told me about how she had no friends and was bullied so badly she was thinking of killing herself, the kids were mean to the teachers as well so I just thought it was because of the students were bad. But then a attractive white lady came to our class. she was being hit on and almost everyone liked her and gushed over how pretty she was. Another student who came to the school ( who was attractive) told me she was never bullied at the school. The attractive kids never had a story of being bullied for long periods of time while the kids who were considered ugly at school were bullied longer, were outcasted or both all based on looks. Does anyone notice? Or is this just me thinking too much?