A lot of men of this generation without fathers, and who watch too many movies/shows think the best way to get girls is to start off by being their friend. What you need to realize is that single mothers train their son to be the men who they want to date, and this is vastly different from the men that women without children want to date/fuck.

Single mothers - want a kind, nice guy who will show love towards her kids and her.
Single women (without kids) - want a man who they have chase or who they feel they need to impress.
Fathers or children of 2 parents will often be raised to be a real man and have a better understanding of gender roles.

This is why guys who ignore girls text, and don't give 2 shits about them do so well with girls and get them when they are at their most prettiest, less baggage and optimistic about love.

While the guy who tries to start off being their friend, talking to them for hours are going to massively fail with women until they are ready to settle down and/or have kids.

woman wants a man who they have to chase after or who they WANT or feel the need to impress. Being their best friend and talking to them for hours all the god damn time is going to make them lose that with you. A man should treat his woman from time to time, keep them included in their life, but also know their role in the relationship.
People who fall into this talking all the time and being best friends with their wife/gf are the ones who end up with :
fat wives

wives who dont want to have sex anymore

wives who seek out chad thundercock and end up cheating themselves

Trust me I have done both in relationships and when I act like a man and dont confide and talk all the damn time to them, they want sex all the time, give you everything you want, and treat you like a king. When I was going the route of being their best friend, all the good shit slowly faded away.
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Pretty fuckin' sure that single moms end up as single moms because they date some guy who projects the image of the mythological "alpha male".
GOOD and LASTING marriages actually do begin with being friends first, at least for a bit.
Single moms end up single moms because they date men who project false alpha male behavior. So many of you bash articles like this and then when i'm scrolling through questions on this site its always "how can i get this girl to like me", "why is it she stop talking to me", "what do you like in a man ladies". So many of men of this generation lash out at articles like this, YET are so lost in how to approach women.
What are you contradicting yourself?
Please point out where I'm contradicting myself.
Maybe not contradicting yourself, but you basically said what I said. And then it seemed like you were arguing against me.
Well you said the alpha male is mythological implying it doesn't exist. This I don't agree with.
In every social setting and group u'll always see a guy who takes leadership/people are drawn towards and who girls chase and want to be with. This is the alpha male.
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