Do y’all males like chasing the women you want?

[Toriixlovely]

[Sonorous]

In reality, no. I'm not interested right now at least. But in theory, Maybe. But a chase that's more flirty & reciprocated. Like a fun game where the rules are unspoken but known & respected.

And what would make it fun for me wouldn't be competing against other men. Forget that. You can have her! What would make it fun for me is getting certain unlocks or perks that others don't get very easily.

So I wouldn't say that I like "chasing" in the fundamental sense of the word. It tends to be too broad. But I like when more intricate elements are involved & it becomes a playful & more meaningful thing. I do like involving myself with people that are harder to get. But not impossible.

[dynamicyandere]

I prefer it to feel more mutual, like a nice back and forth, like a dance.


And, I believe if two people are equally very attracted to each other, it’ll feel more like that anyway.


It’s nice when both of you are equally as excited to spend time with each other.

[Danny_dan92]

Not anymore

[Toriixlovely]

How come? If I may ask.

[Danny_dan92]

Just got turned off to the idea of dating

[Toriixlovely]

Oh yes I felt that in many ways. I respect that. There are a lot of people who are out there to date and it’s the most frustrating thing.

[Danny_dan92]

Dating is fucked now

[Toriixlovely]

It truly is though. IT SUCKS !!

[Danny_dan92]

It’s all cause of the internet

[Toriixlovely]

Okay, I say the same thing. The internet affects life all around that’s why I only have this app and no social media. In my own opinion the rate of cheaters, being left for someone else, and much more has a lot to do w/ sm. There is no respect. When you go out (anywhere) you see couples on their phone like damn put them down look around you, talk to each other, bond. It’s nothing of that such no more.

[Danny_dan92]

Cheating got really easy to do because of the internet/smart phones

[Toriixlovely]

And that is why I don’t get into that stuff. No no nooo 😂 not good for my soul and mind.

[Danny_dan92]

Getting cheated on hurts

[Toriixlovely]

It truly does… bad bad… I took back my ex after finding him cheating. I had that mindset like every one makes mistakes and we are able to “work through it” hell nahhh I’ve learned my lesson.

[Danny_dan92]

😂😂 when you forgive someone for doing wrong, they’re going to do it again.

Forgiving in that context is the same as rewarding

[Toriixlovely]

yes yes !! You are 100% right that’s why I learned my lesson and won’t be doing that again. That was my first time getting cheated on so I didn’t know what was the right thing to do at the time. 💀 I was like damn the hell was I even thinking.

[DreamLife7]

Men say one thing but like the other. Never believe what they say , watch what they do.

[DreamLife7]

So yes they chase who and what they want

[ZackBan]

If you included a poll you'd see 99% of men voting no and that's what the comments are showing too.

This whole notion of "chasing" is juvenile and something disney invented in order to make romantic sitcoms.

In real life the only way a relationship works is if 2 people are in for it and put in some effort.

[BadApple69]

I have a special pair of sneakers just for that occasion...

[Toriixlovely]

OOOO GOODNESS !! another one of my favorite comments 😂😂

[BadApple69]

Glad you enjoyed it 😉

[Hormuzan]

Personally, I don't like it.

I found out from a young age that chasing a woman you like brings you no nowhere except feeding her ego. Also, she might get the signal that you are desperate and have no other options which is a major turnoff I experienced.

Best way I found out to get girls is to be so attractive, confident, succesful and rich yourself and let them chase you rather than you chase them. This is my prefered aproach nowadays.

But yeah, if women weren't repulsed by it I would do it way more often tbh.

[Anonymous]

Ill chase up to a point to get the date. Other than that, I do not chase to secure a relationship, nor do I chase when they pull away in the relationship.

[Toriixlovely]

Would you like if a woman started chasing you? If you decided you wanted to not be with her? Or talk to her no more?

[Opinion Owner]

If I *think* I don't want to be with her and she starts chasing me and is able to show that whatever made me start not being interested anymore has been if not fixed, then at least shown how they will fix it, if it's even fixable, then all good. If I know I don't want to be with her, then know I don't like it. When I was younger, I would admittingly feel good but at my age, I only get annoyed

[Toriixlovely]

Ahhhh, okay I see what you’re saying. I truly made a mistake by chasing someone who didn’t want me (I learned) and realized it’s annoying to do that specifically if they don’t want you. I made my mistakes by overthinking that’s it but at the time I didn’t want him to give up on me cause I was willing to fix my self but didn’t work 😂😂 lesson learned. You can not keep someone who doesn’t want to be kept.

[Unit1]

No, it gets repetitive and boring very fast.

If i do everything and she does almost nothing, then that's how the relationship will play out in the future. boring and feeling unwanted.

I need a back and forth interaction like someone mentioned here.

[Anonymous]

I don't chase. You want to be chased buy a dog.

[Toriixlovely]

This is my favorite comment I don't know why 😂😂😂

[Truthatanycost]

The only thing a man should chase is faith and life purpose.

[Nirmroth]

Yes at start like initiating contact and planing logistics but after that it should be equal. Dont want to run after someone that shows no interest, my time is better spent differently.

[DarkWinterNights]

Nope. If there isn’t any reciprocation I move on quickly.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Only if I feel a form of certainty that they are worth it

[SolitarySolace]

I don’t chase women. The last time I did, I was falsely accused. Besides all of my exes cheated on me so why would I attempt to find a partner who will just eventually cheat on me?

[Toriixlovely]

I got cheated on for the first time. Felt horrible I wish that on no one. I wish you find the one for you though 😊

[SolitarySolace]

That’s funny because I wish I don’t find someone. 😂 I’ve been single for almost 9 years now and I can’t see myself being with someone after all of this time alone. I’ve grown too content. Besides my past experiences have given me too much resentment for women. They and myself will both be better off.

[Toriixlovely]

Well, you’re allowed to feel that. I hope one day you’ll get out of that feeling when it’s the right time. To me I think someone will make you put down that guard you have up 😊 this generation is crazy. BUUUTT, There are good ones (even tho it’s a low percentage). You deserve it. Don’t let low life shits make you think otherwise. keep enjoying that solitude!!

[Exterminatore]

I’m married. In my single days they would chase me. I, however refused to chase anyone. I have self respect.

[RedInnocent68]

Not really. It’s nicer when they come around 🤔😉

[DextroShade]

No, we generally don't and only do it because we we like fucking women. A woman who is into me is far better than a woman who is playing stupid games to extract my time and resources.

[Avery64]

No. I prefer to be told that way the relationship can start sooner

[Fireguy17]

Nope, you either are interested in me or you aren't.

Not into playing games.

[tzdc21]

If it's too much, and there is no form of reciprocation, then no

[exitseven]

I liked the chasing but hated the games that sometimes came after..

[more_than_a_guy]

Pursue ≠ chase

Pursuing is with confidence, mature, knows where to let go.

Chase is more desperate, sometimes pushing too much and doesn't let go.

I pursue.

[love_conquers_lust]

I liked both in different aspects of the relationship.

[Yannae]

Only if I want her. But I'm more a person who reels the person in. I don't actively chase.

[Shamalien]

There is something about any kind of hunt that excites me

[Nifrayu]

No. I don't chase anyone. If she's not interested then neither am I.

[DWornock]

It is a woman's obligation to make the first move. After that, I can chase.

[LiamJHayden]

Chasing? No. I ask and if she declines I move on.

[XD_BREEZY]

Sometimes, for me if she’s what I want then I’m going to at least try to get her. However I may be not what she want and I just gotta respect that

[Anonymous]

no, i hate it. Thats why I've invested in heavy duty padlocks on my basement this season

[Anonymous]

Op why r u so cute

[Toriixlovely]

Thanks boo 😭🩵

[Opinion Owner]

Are you Creole?

[Anonymous]

Neah just taking what it comes i believe in destiny

[Billlewis]

Oh, absolutely!

[Anonymous]

Blocked for saying y'all.

[Toriixlovely]

That’s okay. If you have nothing nice to say please leave your comment to your self. Thank you 😊🩵

[kareka]

Not chasing but trying

[Willlovewinintheend]

No, I don't chase.

[black_king]

I honestly don’t like chasing a woman at all

[black_king]

Because I feel if you chasing her she really don’t want to be caught by u

[Toriixlovely]

Oh, well of course! I just learned that this year.

[Charliefretz329]

If she lets on that there’s a potential

[Anonymous]

Chasing women,
What am I? suicidal

[Luopio27]

Hell no.

[Anonymous]

I always hated being the Hunter

[Luckycharms12]

To a point yes

[jahaims]

No, that is immature

[shortster]

Nope.

[BLP11520]

I did yes

[justabuddy]

To a point.

[Anonymous]

No, I don't chase.