Do you chase after guys?

[Anonymous]

It's embarrassing to me. Like if I were able to get the man of my dreams but I had to chase I wouldn't do it. Feel like he's playing games👎🏾

[NamerOfStars]

You consider it embarrassing to actually seek out what you want, and so instead wait for it to come to you?

As a mental exercise, I'd like you to imagine applying that line of thinking to something- anything, really- aside from romance. You don't go to work, because it should come for you. You go to restaurants and refuse to order, because it feels like the waiter's playing games. You're rushed to the ER and the doctor asks what's wrong, and you just roll your eyes and say "You should KNOW that already!".

This isn't going to end well for you.

[paledreams]

What about your prime 20s? Weren't guys totally into you and you had to keep saying you had a boyfriend just to keep the waves at bay 🌊👋🏻 of phone number requests lol. I never have had a woman openly flirts or ask me out. I've had women stare at me my age who I found marginally attractive. They were usually plain looking, healthy, yet plain. I never seemed to get their numbers either lol 😆 they'd just stare and never act on any whatever they were staring or glancing at me for
We've all had moments like that "on reflection, why no chick ever ask me" in broken. English lol

[paledreams]

So I don't chase after any women 🥲 and I'm sure few women chase after guys or they're just bored at work lol 🥱😴 on the job lol 😆

[paledreams]

Because works work. Yawns 🥱 as important as work is. I'm glad I'm no surgeon or other high job

[Asker]

Why? If you were girls would chase you because of your status

[paledreams]

For my looks and my slim build and pale skin surely, shouldn't they be all hitting on me or flirting with their 👀 👄🫦? 😋 Or I'm just 🤢🤮 on the eyes hahaha 😂 ah well. I still stride along. If the looks don't work, they must be taken aback by "look at that guy go"

[Anonymous]

Virtually never. Most women are game players. So if she comes onto a guy 99 times out of 100 it's a game. Now if she does the work, If she gets to know me, is interested in what makes me tick, we clearly have shared interests and I determine it's not just for manipulative purposes then I might chase. But otherwise, no way no how.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I did and I eventually caught him.

[MK1997]

I did bef

[jahaims]

It's immature