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I've known this girl for about a year and a half-ish. She's my friend's girlfriend, but she actively reaches out to me over SnapChat and she regularly flirts with me, gets to know me, wants to know about how I'm feeling, etc... None of this happens over any permanent means of communication. This girl flirts with me HARD, but we have this game where she and I will flirt pretty hard, but then she pulls back quick and mentions something about her boyfriend. I'm not stupid. I know that she's just doing this for attention, and probably finds me attractive. I would love to steal away with her for a weekend romp, but I don't see myself making an emotional connection with her, and it seems like she sees me the same way.

I've never minded our little game very much (as things never progressed beyond our clandestine flirting), but as things have gotten more serious with another girl, I have been thinking that it might make sense to ask her to keep our chats on the other social media that we are on.

If things don't work out with this other girl though (and if she breaks up with her bf), I still want to have the option of having sex with her. I am worried that acknowledging our chemistry would totally kill that magic.

What should I do?

I got to a school for my dental care. I have a crush on my main student Dentist. Her name is Amanda in her senior year. For a second tooth cleaning she introduces me to this random girl named Kelly whom I've never met.

Kelly is just finishing her licensing exam. This is my 2nd tooth cleaning. She never utters a word to me before or after the procedure. Just jokes with her classmates. I am ignored. Very different than Amanda...

Up to that random day I was under the care of Amanda. It seemed in several appointments we got to know each other quickly. One time I was high on Nitrus and I said weird stuff. I think I might have implied I was usually "took my time" in bed? I made some mention of having a teddy bear, playing violin, and liking history.

Afterward she mentions she likes archaeology. She is flicking her hair. I asked her to call my office for scheduling because before she had been calling my cell phone. She flips out her cell phone. I am still high as a kite but add my number. I then call her 20 minutes later saying I put in my cell number (she already had this) instead of my office number. She asks, "Is it okay if I call this number?" I told her it was okay but during office hours I have my cell phone off. She called me only once at my office number. But instead kept calling me at my cell phone number either after work or in the morning before my first tooth cleaning appointment. She said she will "tag" along to assist at the 7am appointment.

By the time I get to my 1st tooth cleaning I apologize during prep for comments while high. Instead she ignores this and starts talking about her family, interests, etc.. Then she tells me she played violin as a girl. Gets deep into discussion about her fears. By the time the guy student cleaning my teeth comes he looks at us weird as we both start talking about a tv show.

Afterwards. She says goodbye. stares at my shoulders, then touches my arm. Next day she greets me at 7am even though She didn't need to be there!