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Am I just paranoid after his and I's past and problems or could it be that there's someone else?

I think I am being paranoid after finding out what he done to me seven months ago during our relationship. From cheating on me for two days to hurting my feelings by lying about something that I didn't do that ruined my reputation to many people that knows me. It's hard to forget and forgive someone like that who you thought loves you but still will hurt you. I love him so I forgave him but another lie then I'm seriously done. I'm don't giving him so many chances. He's literally touching that red flag already.

He was the one that called me in the first place after his rehearsal and I thought he should rest first. It's nice of him to call but I always tell him to rest first after rehearsal at least one hour. I really don't mind and I told him I'm not asking him to call me after every classes and rehearsals he had. But when some other girl/friend text him... he suddenly focuses on that person. Before he went to his college, he use to embrace me and give me his attention more often. But since he went to his college that he attends, he's usually on his phone texting other girls and friends. So, I get upset because what's the point of me visiting him 33 miles away to talk to him and hangout. Like, I'm here for a d*mn good reason and he's on his phone. Like, where is your respect and manners. It makes me upset how he have hearts on other girls' contacts and I don't that made me had the thought he was cheating last year but he angrily said "No!" But why would he get angry. I was just asking politely. Which made me more upset is that one of girl best friends was sending hearts to him and he was sending hearts back. :/ He's says that she's just his best friend but... not all best friends are like that... especially...

Some people I talk to seem to enjoy it when others feel for them (which sounds natural, I guess: wanting someone to relate to you). However, it's also a little strange seeing people who almost live off of this pity.
Sometimes we often get caught up complaining or talking about how stressed we are, how awful our lives are, how insecure we feel, etc. as if it's a competition like "you should feel bad for me!"
Is it true that most people do this or like this type of attention?