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You decide to break up with your SO citing some frivolous argument or trait they have they start to panic and like you 100x as much.


It is a poker move you are betting they won't like being broken up with and will break down in desperation to be with you.

It’s no secret love grows stale and expires, people become bored with you and it seems the harder you try to please them the further this turns them off. The only way to keep your lover is to push them away ironically.

This psychological phenomenon can be described as “negatively bias” where people value what they cannot have much more than what they do have.

So pretend break up or no? Cruel tactic or wise?

If you already know the backstory skip down to where it says "update". If not read below.

So for those who don't know I'm SINGLE but started having a secret affair with a female classmate who didn't tell me she had a boyfriend until after we'd had sex. I kept it going for a while and she got so hot and loved the situation so much that she MOVED IN with her boyfriend because the 'hidden' nature of the affair excited her so much.

WITHIN ONE FUCKING WEEK she slipped up and send him a graphically sexual text message that was meant for me. She had already given up her apartment but her boyfriend threw her out anyway. She then insisted that start an official relationship with her and let her move into my place. I told her I DO NOT get into official situations with cheaters. She ended up having to stay with her sister and her brother-in-law who apparently see her as common trash now, so she responded by immediately threatening me and saying we would "embarrass me" in class, we're also teammates on a very important school project. The first time we had sex was actually some impulsive insanity that happened while we were working on the project. Well she did try to embarrass me.